Okay, I was wondering, do you ladies...straight ladies, get turned on by your man just from looking or making out? Or does it usually take a bit extra? (Touching, feeling him up, knowing hes turned on)
Also, have you ever been turned on by a female...be it thinking about fooling around, thinking they look attractive, or just the look and shape of their body. I know that there are some women who identify as straight and like watching girl on girl porn with their husbands.
I think many women (especially young women) have thoughts about other women and may even want to experiment with another woman. It's part of maturing and exploring your sexuality. I know plenty of straight men who also are curious about other males.
Personally, I will sometimes watch lesbian porn. I will sometimes find a woman out on the street attractive. The amount of women I find attractive is extremely small compared to the amount of men I will find attractive, they rarely catch my eye, but yes - there is the occasion when they do. I have never had any sexual experiences with other women IRL, but I have had dreams about having sex with a woman and I can be turned on by watching the porn. It's not something I'd ever actively seek out, but if for some reason the opportunity fell into my lap, I might take it out of curiousity. I think there are probably a lot of people that feel the same way. The does not necessarily make that person a "lesbian" or "bi".
I would consider myself to be straight, because I know that I only ever desire to be in a relationship with a man. Even if I did ever have a sexual experience or two with another woman, I can tell you that would probably satisfy my desires. I wouldn't crave sex with a woman like I crave sex with a man. Personally, I think you can't judge a persons sexual orientation just because of the porn they choose to watch. Half of what I watch is just out of curiousity.
All he has to do is look at me the "way" or kiss a certain way...that's enough to get my pants off.
I don't care about watching porn w/a guy....even if it's female orientated. The act turn me on...sort of imagine I am the one getting it. I can admire a woman for her features/beauty. I will even comment if w/a male friend; "see she looks proportionate". Sexually turned on by a woman? No. Just b/c I love the artwork of Monet does not mean I am tearing it off the wall, want it, and taking it home. I can admire but no sexual turn on in the real part of life...
FYI..I don't "Identify" myself as straight; I am. If I was not, the dating pool would drastically increase for me!!! LOL!
i can definately get turned on just by watching him...as for being turned on by other girls...i find the entire female body to be DISGUSTING and can barely even stand my own so i guess that answers that question.
Alright thanks. I was wondering cuz my ex, and I guess my best friend caught his girlfriend watching lesbian porn so he was like OMFG dont tell me its happening to me too lol.
Oh and sera thats pretty damn funny, I thought about that a long time ago...the only thing about being bi would just mean more people lol
[quote=Ducy;197039]Alright thanks. I was wondering cuz my ex, and I guess my best friend caught his girlfriend watching lesbian porn so he was like OMFG dont tell me its happening to me too lol.
Oh and sera thats pretty damn funny, I thought about that a long time ago...the only thing about being bi would just mean more people lol[/quote] Yes if I was bi; the dating pool would expand greatly for me. But I am not.
I find men and women attractive sexually. I haven't had good social relationships with women in the past, so I could NEVER imagine myself in a relationship with a woman. Besides I love the male mind too much :D. That said, I have fantasies about men and women, I'll watch any kind of porn although I generally prefer guy on guy or heterosexual but that is simply because watching two girls eating each other gets boring after a while in my opinion. I do admit I am more turned on by a male, if I see a bare hard cock its likely I'll get wet. If I see a bare pussy I won't, unless its exceptionally beautiful or theres something being done to, like being fingered, a cock in it, licked, etc. I consider myself bi, because I have had sexual experiences with women and men. At that time I enjoyed them both about the same, but I enjoy the sex with my finacee the best because of the emotional connection and I love penetration haha.
Oh on a last note, making out turns me on no matter who it is with.
I am completely and irretrieviably heterosexual. Give me men! Nice big dominant men! Mmmmm. All I have to do is to see one, don't even have to know him, and WOW! Yes! That one over there! I could tell you stories! OH my, my, my, my my. But I digress.
Pornography is boring. Why watch when you can do?
Women do absolutely nothing for me sexually, sorry; if I want to see female sttributes I have a mirror, thank you, or participate in group play of various sizes and combinations. Even then, I only do the men.
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;197334] All I have to do is to see one, don't even have to know him, and WOW! Yes! That one over there! I could tell you stories! OH my, my, my, my my. But I digress.
I have a mirror, thank you, or participate in group play of various sizes and combinations. Even then, I only do the men.[/QUOTE]
I agree 100% EEK :) men are fabulous. I'm just the curious type I guess, I always wonder what its like with another women...with two women...two men...three men? Dare I dream? :D :D :D
CW with men it is GREAT! Mf, MMF, MMMMMMMMMMMMMMF LOL
But as to with women - could not say.
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;197369]CW with men it is GREAT! Mf, MMF, MMMMMMMMMMMMMMF LOL
But as to with women - could not say.[/QUOTE]
:eek: *drool*
I can get off to men's bodies. I can look at some man that attracts me physically- usually thin but muscular dudes make me wet. they actually make me wet watching them masturbate or have sex. And i like faces that stop my breath. :)
its funny how you see women sometimes say they like to watch a bit of girl on girl but ive never seen a straight man say ive watched a bit of man on man, this has been a little convo between friends at college now and again but i just wonder if its more to do with a pride of a man? (im not saying women dont have pride)
i could be wrong.
Tis the stigma of being gay or even just thought gay that make men go eeewwww! Men compete. Being the "receiver" is thought to be debasing vis-a-vis the guy "giving" so, no, they're not going there!
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;197679]Tis the stigma of being gay or even just thought gay that make men go eeewwww! Men compete. Being the "receiver" is thought to be debasing vis-a-vis the guy "giving" so, no, they're not going there![/QUOTE]
I am sure you are right. It is not a case of being homophobic in not liking to be thought of as 'giving in'. I am still quite keen to be taken anally...but it must be by a lady. It might give me an insight of what it is like to be 'broken in' in the case of lassie. How exciting! Just need to find the lady!!
I'd like to have at least one f/f experience, but it is a matter of actually finding the right girl!