Now, I know that most women either like, tollerate or dislike a man's cum in their mouths or even swallowing. That is a given... but I've read elsewhere online of women that change their mind or at least become more interested in the idea of "sharing" the cum with their partner.
Sharing is a vague term, but in the most common instance, it is the woman keeping his semen in her mouth after orgasm via oral... then she kisses him with his semen still in her mouth and "shares" it with him.
Personally, the thought of it does nothing for me sexually, but it would be something I'd consider if it meant that SHE would be more open to completing oral to the "end". I dunno... I've never tried it before, but hey... if I'm asking HER to put it in her mouth... I guess the thought of my-own fluids in mine shouldn't be that far-a-stretch to comply with.
NOW... My question to the ladies... for those of you who are not-that-into having your hubby / boyfriend cum into your mouth... would the idea of "sharing" it with him actually intrigue you more and be a turn-on... or would it not change a thing... or would it seem even less appealing than before...?
The reason I ask is... I am not all that enthused about the idea to begin with and I would rather NOT make the suggestion if it meant that not-only would she not like the idea... she may think it's because I WANT to taste myself. I am just trying to find a way to make her more comfortable about the act (if possible) and find a way that empathises with her dillemma.
The accounts of this that I have read seem less-than plausible, which is why I am asking you ladies. Would that notion have any affect on your desire to let him cum in your mouth...?
Thanks. Sorry if I am/was too graphic.
-HlaM
Well....the common understanding of the term SNOWBALLING is to french kiss right after oral sex. and the 2 exchange the semen during the kiss.
Well now that would depend on how much cum you put in her mouth and how long you two kiss for.
no no no ...
I though snowballing was either spitting or drooling the cum into your partner's mouth... I'm just talking about KISSING her while it's IN her mouth... but obviously, we'd both end-up tasting it.
Maybe I'm wrong...!
[QUOTE=Quote (Tessie @ Nov. 22 2004,17:48)]What you are describing is called "Snowballing".[/QUOTE]
Yep, that's what I've always heard of this as. Referenced as a part of the Kevin Smith film "Clerks" if you're interested.
Cheers.
Hmm good question.
I guess for some, "sharing" might make it better to be a real turn on.
I can just imagine tho, that if it tastes bad just swallowing it. Then imagine the taste after you've swirled it around in your mouthes for awhile, lol. ewww, lol
yeah I know Im not much of a romantic when it comes to this kind of stuff.
Well... as it is, she doesn't swallow... and has only taken my cum in her mouth... maybee... 6-8 times in the entire time we've been together for almost 7-years.
BUT... over the past two years or so... she's been opening-up more and talking about sex and trying newer things... so, she's not totally closed-minded... just very conservative.
As far as the "romance" thing... I hear ya... but there are extremes and varying shades of grey when it comes to sex for me (us). From the romantic approach where it is gentle, loving and deep... to the pure, lust-driven, dirty, anamalistic side. I think THAT end of the spectrum would lend itself to the idea of sharing... but again. I don't want to do it or even mention it to her if "most" women here who also do not enjoy tasting a man's cum, would not respond positively to this idea.
Thanks for your reply. Helpful, as always.
What you are describing is called "Snowballing". I haven't done it because while I don't mind swallowing I am not going to be holding it and spitting it back out. Ewwww! Plus my man isn't into it at all.
But it is a turn on for a lot of people and I think the only way to know is to ask her. Like you said she is opening up and wanting to explore new things so put the idea out there for her.
There are lots of things I wouldn't have done a few years ago that now totally turn me on. The best part of sex is finding new turn ons and putting them into practice.