If your partner is typical of a girl/woman fairly new to sex, or who has never given birth, and all you are able to insert is a single finger, how do you propose inserting a fist that might be on the order of 6.5" / 16.5cm. in width?

Y'all are talking about this as if you just go and do it! once the decision and agreements have been made.

i would not be turned off by it. not really something that gets me off but if my girl wanted it and it turned her on then i would be for it. i'm sure she's not that crazy about some of the stuff i like to be done to me but she does it because it turns me on. its the same thing if you think about it. do you do things for him that might not be a turn on for you?

No but I'm very open minded. Some guys may find it even an incredible turn on. If I were you I would suggest you look up some information on fisting because there are several dangers...I mean there are ceratin ways you should go about removing your hand and things like that.

my philosophy is it makes the woman happy then i'll do it without being self conscious about my body. i'm the one pleasing her no matter what part of my body i am using. as long as i'm happy with the sex then i will do what i can to make her happy, with in reason, and yes i would do this. you just have to know if his ego is bigger than his penis. all you can do is just ask, but do it when discussing sex and not in the moment.

No problem. It seems to be a popular activity these days. Most guys go through a time in their lives when they want to see how much of their hand or how many fingers they can get in a woman's vagina anyway so....fisting is the logical next step.

Its an incredible sensation for a guy to see the enjoyment / pleasure on a womans face as the fist is accepted fully. Naturally the lady has to be 100% willing and should she have been forward enough to request the initial experience then this helps remove any doubt on both sides.

Well I never fisted so if someone ask's me to do it I might...

I just need to make sure I get enough lube all over my massive hands!

I completely agree with DD2! My bf still needs to slowly work 1 finger up to 2. And that is allready quite something, given it 's twice as big as my tiny fingers. Taking a penis is quite something! :) Allthough in some ways I'd even say that the thicker penis with the soft shell is more easy than the fingers that are a bit more hard and rough. Not to mention; a penis doesn't have fingernails! :rolleyes:

Yes a vagina is very stretchy and capable of allowing a newbron to pass through, which is even possible without a single tear. But remember that there are a lot of forces and hormones at work during childbirth that contribute to making this possible, including softening all the surrounding tissue. As far as women who have given birth; this perhaps could make fisting more "easy". But how many women have (painful) scartissue as a legacy of a cut or tear? So I personally wouldn't count on that either...

I think the fun of sex would be that you get pleassure from whatever you do together. If that's fisting for you, then please enjoy! But don't turn it into a competition. It's the amount of pleasure, not the amount of fingers that counts! :)

I think That would turn me on.. i'm always up for new things

I comply with whatever the sexual hieght in my wife at the time wants. A perfect relationship would be if both partners felt this way. We only go around once, why in the world wouldnt we try everything life has to offer? SOmething you thought might never stimulate you may turn out to be extacy. "Try Everything at Least Once!"

I'm sorry but "wife at the time" made me lol!

It would in no way turn me off to be asked by a lady to fist her. If I was able to get my 1st hand in her I'd ask her if she wanted me to see how much of my other hand she could take.