I was a virgin until few days ago when me and my girlfriend both had sex for the first time.
Before that she knew I was a virgin, and she told me she is also.
We tried before but she would start sayin to stop bcz it was hurting here. Few days ago I just put my penis in... it just happend. What im concerned is that there was no bleeding, and based on what I have read and heard I am supposed to have difficulties puting it all in bcz it shouldv be tight.
I mean it was a bit difficult but it didnt seemd that tight and no bleeding. Now I think she lied about her virginity, and I think she had sex before.
Can someone give me an advice here ?!
[COLOR="DarkOrchid">I didn't bleed my first time and didn't really have that much pain. I also had been using tampons and had fingered myself before so you know.... everyone is different. [/COLOR]
Was the experience a pleasurable one??...I would NOT dwell on all the what IF'S....there's a zillion reasons why it wasn't what you expected..just love her for what it is worth...enjoy and don't worry about details...just because there wasn't any bleeding etc,,doesn't mean she wasn't a virgin...:)
There are lots of reasons for a virgin to have a broken hymen. Tampons. Sports. Playing with herself.
Read the "first pelvic exam" thread in Chick Chat and you'll see what I mean.
There could be a lot of reasons why she didn't bleed, including the idea of her not being a virgin, but i agree with Luvs, don't dwell. If you like her it shouldn't matter her past. I'm sure you have done things in your past you wouldn't tell her about.
On the other hand, she may be virgin and you are worrying over nothing.:)