Hello. Last night I had oral sex with this guy I have been dating. This was our first time. The weirdest thing happen! Junk started appearing in my mouth. It was whitest-yellowish, thick. It's hard to describe it. When I asked him what was it, he said he didn't know. Does any one have any idea? I need some answers!
Tue, 01/08/2008 - 21:11
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Question About Oral Sex - Weird 1st Experience
Yes, you, and he, need some answers and general education before your sexual relationship proceeds any further.
A man delivers sperm into a woman's vagina during intercourse. The vehicle that carries the sperm is semen - a viscous, whitish-yellow fluid that liquifies over the next twenty minutes or so. He ejaculated or reached orgasm or came in your mouth. That same stuff in your other end makes you pregnant. In your mouth just tastes bad and feels slimy.
Every time you do a blow job or handjob or screw, the object of nature is for you to get that out of him. Over your lifetime you will extract a lot of that from male friends. And they will be happy to deliver!
If he does not know what his body did and you do not know what he delivered, you each need a long talk with your parents, older borthers and sisters, nurse at the clinic or someone who knows the basics of sexual physiology.
Now come on. I know what semen is. This stuff was thick, pastey. It was more like cottage cheese then think semen. It wasn't normal. It was weird.
Well, I understood this was the first time. In this case, I am willing to guess that he was not circumcised and had a good amount of smegma under his foreskin. All of us (men and women) have this stuff gather around our clitoris or corona (men) and it is usually washed away with good hygiene. If it was cheesey and gunky, that is what it was.
It is a collection of dead skin cells, sweat, urine, various bacteria and other body fluids.
Uncircumcised men have a particular challenge to keep it clean. In fact we all do.
thank you for this information. and, no he is not circumcised. i think the next time we decide to have oral sex, i will wash his penis myself. i was really tripping last night, because i had never experienced this before. it was so weird. i feel such a sense of relief. once again, thanks.
It is an indicator of poor hygiene - or, at least, he had not bathed for a while. The foreskin needs to be pulled all the way back to properly wash the uncircumcised penis.
Smegma can be nasty (you should see me after 100 miles on a bicycle) but much nastier stuff can accumulate in sexually active, uncircumcised men.
Smegma you would see, and likely smell, before you put your lips on his penis... it can be all over the head of his penis and the inside of his foreskin, but it tends to build up around the glans head (under the "lip"). I would imagine that if he had smegma enough to notice, you wouldn't be giving him a blow until he washed up...
If this is coming up during his ejaculation... this could be what you are noticing:
if a man is brought to ejaculation really quickly without much foreplay, his semen will be a lot thicker and lumpier... if he is warmed up first, the semen is more runny and more consistent... Although I would guess it differs for each man, I assume there is an amount of time the "troops" need to be readied before you want them released...
The only other thought that comes to mind... sometimes, if a man doesn't ejaculate for some time, his first ejaculation after the break could include some less normal components... some which can be described as clumpy but soft...
If those do not fit the bill... i don't want to worry you, but strange discharge from his penis could be an indicator of a problem, possibly an STD... so it may be a good idea for both of you to get checked out.
I have nothing helpful to add, but... Eww.
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LOL Yup!!!
That would turn anyone off of oral sex lol :eek:
If he hasn't ejaculated for quite a long time, the semen might be thicker or more yellowish. I've noticed differences in the texture of mine depending on how long since I last ejaculated, and how aroused I am.
She asked her question and got her answer (clarified) answer. The rest is up to her.
Uncircumcised men: take note!
this explains why circumcission is so wide spread... but now that we have running water at our disposal... no need to snip anything...
and ladies... imagine how we feel about you at your least freshest.... :eek:
:p
Advantages to dating a horse person, #203:
After having worked with male horses, smegma is completely unsurprising and generally dealt with matter-of-factly.
Even so... guys... bathe. Please.
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They say before you even have oral sex you are supposed to wash your intimate areas. But, yes, that is pretty disgusting. He may not know how to have a good wash down there.
[QUOTE=nympho;205167]They say before you even have oral sex you are supposed to wash your intimate areas. But, yes, that is pretty disgusting. He may not know how to have a good wash down there.[/QUOTE]
Since I'm living in Europe at the moment, I take advantage of the bidet every time we're planning to have sex. (and afterwards too, best anti-drippy creation known to women!) Somehow I feel sexier if I know I'm clean, I guess because I know he can enjoy how I taste, not just choke it down. :p
BigK,
The fact remains that in cultures who routinely do circumcision (Jewa, Muslims), the cervical cancer rate is much, much lower than in cultures where few are circumcised. It does not have to be noticeable to be bad stuff in the folds of the foreskin.
that's really gross, and a very big anti-climax. I don't get it that he doesn't even know himself what it is?
[QUOTE=curious_woman;205172]Since I'm living in Europe at the moment, I take advantage of the bidet every time we're planning to have sex. (and afterwards too, best anti-drippy creation known to women!) Somehow I feel sexier if I know I'm clean, I guess because I know he can enjoy how I taste, not just choke it down. :p[/QUOTE]
I agree. I will not let my partner go down on me until I have had a wash. Mind you, if we have a wash together, it's even better!
[QUOTE=nympho;205774]I agree. I will not let my partner go down on me until I have had a wash. Mind you, if we have a wash together, it's even better![/QUOTE]
Oral feels so great in the shower mmmmmmm :D.