By hot spots im referring to things you do that you know makes someone wild and horny (ie. nibbling on ear, licking neck, etc.) Anyway i used to be able to bite on my girlfriend bottom lip while making out and would make her horny. Well I did it recently and she said it doesnt effect her anymore cause i wore it out. Can things like that really wear out or could it just have been i did it at a time that she wasnt feeling sexual?
Next time I try it should it be after we have been making out and are really getting into it?
well that, and it gets annoying and you block it.. when you do it EVERY TIME.. i know i did that, its like you only do it SOMETIMES and then it makes you horny.. its like.. you forget what it feels like but if you do it EVERY time you make out or whatever.. it gets... yeah..
Ok thanks everyone. I will try something new when i go to her house tonight.
the other thing could be that she has just become used to the feeling, so it doesn't have as dramatic an effect on her anymore. explore her, find another sweet spot (or several). then maybe try the lip again later
Yup what Wally said. Sometimes it works and sometimes it don't.
Just don't stop trying and exploring new and exciting ways to turn each other on.
While there's lots of biology involved, sex is not science.
As you seem to understand, it's not a case of "press here and this will happen."
I don't think you wore out her bottom lip's response. For any number of possible reasons, it just didn't have the expected affect. Try something else, try it again.
As a side note, sometimes it's the surprise/spontaneity that makes it hot.