I am new to these forums so I am unaware of where to post this,so if this is the wrong area I do apologize. And ask if a mod sees this,they may move my thread.
Anywho...
I really want to try anal sex. My boyfriend has fingered me in the ass before (with lube) and he always gives me rimjobs. I am pretty clean down there but I'm afraid if he slides his dick inside of me,that he will get a little bit of feces on it...That's very embarrassing. I have also heard that after anal sex you get diarrhea really bad and cramping..This scares me. When my boyfriend fingered me in the ass it gave me the feeling like I was going to the "bathroom". I want help on of how to make myself more comfortable when it comes to the anal area,as well on how to clean it right(inside). I do want to try anal sex some day...help..
If you do a search on anal sex you will find many threads and posts dealing with precisely this question. You will also discover that some of the most experienced women here just say "NO!"
[QUOTE=Brandye;259632]If you do a search on anal sex you will find many threads and posts dealing with precisely this question. You will also discover that some of the most experienced women here just say "NO!"[/QUOTE]
What do you mean by "No?" Like No to anal sex? This is something I'd like to try. I haven't looked around the threads that much about anal sex,but I thought it'd be easier to just ask my own question.
You try it if you want,i don't really like it much myself,but i do it sometimes.Lots of lube helps.There is lube made especially for anal play(it's thicker than normal lube)I got some from my local sex shop.I also got an anal dildo to help me get used to having a penis up my butt.Your man could try by gradually putting it in deeper till you are comfortable enough to have him insert his penis.People have the right to say no,but if you never try it,how can you say you don't like it.I was once one of those people,too scared to try it,but now i have,i don't mind it occasionally.
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This is also an excellent tutorial for people interested in and concerned about the how-to of Anal stimulation as well as play.
This is one of those things that you not only need a strong desire to do but you have to arm yourself with as much knowledge as possible. There are many risks involved with anal sex and I hope you have weighed the possible ill-effects with any potential possitive outcomes that you percieve to be possible. The only ones who are really succesfull at receiving anal penetration have to re-train their bodies to overide that need to evacuate the bowels feeling and tolerate the excessive gas and potential intestinal upset that the lube and ejaculate can cause.
The best thing for you to do since you are so sure you want to try it but are still uncomfortable is educate yourself as much as possible then work on it slowly at a pace that you are comfortable. I would also insist that my partner take it up the hershy highway too. After all , he's got an anus and if he wants to get into yours, he should be willing to spread his cheeks for some anal violation as well. Why shouldn't he get some perspective on what it's like to be anally penetrated and it will certainly make him allot more gentle and patient with you. You shouldn't be the only one that has to retrain your body for sexual exploitation and mis-use. What's good for the goose is also good for the gander in this case.
You may have thought it easier to just post yourt own question but, when the same question has been addressed many times, it is just plain rude. Search answers many questions.
[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;259640]Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums. I hope you will enjoy participating. Please begin by familiarizing yourself with the FAQs, the Posting Guidelines section, and especially the Index, all found at the top of the main screen. The Index contains links to helpful informative insightful, as well as how-to articles that discuss the most common questions and concerns people ask about.
> "Playing Ball" and How To Tips for Prostate Massage
This is also an excellent tutorial for people interested in and concerned about the how-to of Anal stimulation as well as play.[/QUOTE]
I'm not sure if I read your artical correctly but I think it was somewhat stating of anal-play towards a guy. MY boyfriend doesn't have any interest in me touching him in his anus...But I did enjoy the artical. The only question I have left is how to properly clean the inside of my anus.
[QUOTE=Brandye;259654]You may have thought it easier to just post yourt own question but, when the same question has been addressed many times, it is just plain rude. Search answers many questions.[/QUOTE]
I did take your advice and did some research around the forums and got some pretty good answers. I just haven't found the correct one reguarding on HOW to clean an anus inside correctly..
Clean, in this case, is a relative concept. To do colonoscopies, we administer two litres of polyethylene glycol the previous day (there are variants of this) with nothing by mouth until the procedure is done. Some people actually do an enema before anal sex. Others simply make certain that they have emptied their bowels recently. Whatever you do, enterobacteria are still present in large numbers. There is no correct answer for this question because there is no way to properly clean the rectum.
Ok! but this has nothing to do with question asked in this thread.I am older woman but no pervert
Uhmmm that has nothing to do with my question "blake007" but guys...Im real scared that if he does me in the ass or something. That something unexpected will be around or come out. Sorry for too graphic. I just dont want it to turn "nasty". As you can see I want to be more educated on the analsex area along with analingus.
cynthia,i understand what you mean.that is why i didn't like the idea of anal sex before .i don't do it all the time but i do it to please my man and he understands my anxiety about it and doesn't push me if i am not completely comfortable.so just do what you are comfortable doing and sorry about the posts from "blake007"