me and my girlfriend are very close, and were both very comfortable with each other, but lately, when shes gotten done giving me oral sex, she has gotten a stomach ache, we have done it many times, but the last 3 or 4 have given her a bad stomach ache, any idea what this is and how to prevent it from happening?
Tue, 06/22/2004 - 05:13
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the thing is though, it never usually lasts very long, and then it goes away, but i think it was more of a nauseous then an ache, so we'll use the trial and error method to try to figure it out, if anyone comes up with anything else, please feel free to enlighten me with your wisdom
thanks again everyone, for trying to help
I'd say "consider stress" as a factor. Without getting too graphic, if she's aching versus being nauseous, she may be "tensing up" up or using a position that causes some strain. If the ache is fairly immediate, I'd lean even more towards that than some kind of reaction to swallowing. (I'd expect that to take a little longer and the result to be more of a nauseous feeling than an ache.) I'd quickly add that this is not meant to be medical, just applying what I think is logic. Might be a case of trial and error to eliminate the cause.
If the pain is intense or lasts very long, I'd consider consulting a doctor.
bump this up
well, i dont think she would be allergic to it, because she did it for awhile before and it just recently started, and yes she does swallow. i was thinkin myself it might have been somethin she ate before and it didnt settle well in her stomach, but i didnt know for sure. i did let her know that it was ok and that we would figure it out, i'll let her know what you guys have said, but if anyone thinks of anything else, pleae let me know, thanks everybody for your help.
yeah oberon's theory would make sense
maybe those few times she didn't have any food on her stomach or maybe she's just kind of allergic to it in general.
maybe it was the food that you ate those few times that made her stomach upset.
kind of like how babies who nurse react to what their moms eat.
heartburn w/ mexican and gas w/ beans lol.
try to think back and see if there was any coincidence.
The first question that comes to mind is "Is she swallowing?" If she is that may be upsetting her stomach. If it is, then she just needs to stop swallowing (paper towels or tissue by the bed work fine), and you need to let her know that it's okay.
I hope this helps. Keep us posted.
Take care and good luck.