i'm confused.. whats the point in my boyfriend wanting to just.. be inside me for a few minutes? he says he wants to know what it feels like, but doesn't consider this sex. i'd like everyones view on this, full of opinions, facts, and whatever you think would help me decide whether to let him or not.
Mon, 10/31/2005 - 18:34
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puts it in
Most people do consisder it sex and it is. But if its virginity your asking about its personal and a state of mind, in my opinion almost like marriage because you don't need to get married to love someone, its just a label(my opinion). Some would say it is gone after that and some wouldn't its still there. To me if your first time is shitty and just an experience, you still have your virginity. Your few other times when you'll actually enjoy it and be more comfortable is when I think one has lost it.
My boyfriend did that when we were together the first little while. I didn't really care because I really REALLY wanted it.. but.. alas... we forgot the condom at home... so we didnt get to do much of anything, but still fun. risky as it was, nothing came of it, so all is good. wouldn't do it again though, not without a condom!
shadowy
Oh yeah, and I think most people do consider it sex. Penis+in vagina=sex. all there is to it.
shadowy
Yeah, if you do that, its sex. No matter what. Booyaaa!!!
As for as I am concerned, that is sex, intercourse is when the penis enters the vagina, and thats what happened, right? So ya...
If a penis enters your vagina for however short a time and whether or not ejaculation occurs, you are assuming all the risks of having sex: pregnancy, STD, etc.
Answer your own question as to whether or not that is sex and whether or not motherhood is your desire.