That is not public affection; that is risky exhibitionism. Some of us have and some could never be persuaded. How about the woods or the middle of a meadow or a river bank. At least no one whould be farting in the next stall.

[QUOTE=Brandye]That is not public affection; that is risky exhibitionism. Some of us have and some could never be persuaded. How about the woods or the middle of a meadow or a river bank. At least no one whould be farting in the next stall.[/QUOTE]

LOL
Brandye
You have such a way w/ words :)

The whole thing about making it 'obvious' is all part of the fun... If you're thinking in the back of your mind that the people around know what you two are up to in the changeroom, it can be that much hotter!

I should also mention that you could even get arrested for doing things in public places. Depending on your jurisdiction, it is quite possibly against the law. If the cops catch you, they will probably do their job and make sure he is not raping you ... they may force him to stand there with his equipment hanging out while you confirm that you are in fact there of your own free will. (This happened to a friend of mine.)

My ex and I, we had a thing for elevators. She asked me to clandestinely "molest" her in an elevator that was filled with people. The thrill of maybe being seen was just part of the rush and excitement for us.

sounds hot moose.

be careful in public, i would have extreme thoughts roaming in my mind if i heard a girl moaning in the stall next to mine (or dressing room for that matter)

we tried it in the parking lot of barns and noble, chem study room. college parking lot many time. just becarefull no camera are on. and also it is a drag when the street sweeper wants to see what you are doing and drive by your car five or six time cleaning basicly the same place the loud nose of there car is a turn off to both me and her..........

I definitely agree with Brandye, that is risky exhibitionism. With something like this, you have to ask yourself an important question: do you really want to do it, or are you just doing it for him?

At any rate, I would say your best bet for spontaneity would be a dressing room. If you sincerely seem like you're shopping, it won't be obvious to him that you're planning on acting. A larger clothing store with a moderate amount of business would be best [due to the lack of employee surveillance over the dressing rooms].

As others have pointed out - yes it's risky. I wouldn't recommend doing it unless YOU really want to do it too. Don't feel pressured to give in just because it's something he wants if the thought of doing it really doesn't sound appealling to you. From experience - one thing you need to be able to enjoy it are nerves of steel and a real desire to begin with. If you are feeling pressured or too scared about getting caught, it will just make you paranoid and unable to enjoy yourself. Of course, the lure of getting caught or doing something risky is usually the root of the turn-on, but if you are TOO scared - as in, terrified the whole time - it just isn't fun.

I happen to like pushing the envelope and doing it in public places. I have quite a few funny stories about my escapades but I'll spare them for now. Haven't been caught yet - KNOCK ON WOOD.

You might try starting out by being somewhere a little more private than a shopping mall or public restroom. I started with having sex in the car, after parking in a dark and secluded place. It's definitely more private but you are still in public - a good way to get used to the idea, I thought. Then we would gradually do it in more public places while still in the car - I think the most public we got was the parking lot of a baseball stadium after a game.

Other places I might suggest are: the great outdoors (in the woods, in a field, in an abandoned house) - best done at night, if you aren't too afraid of the dark!; the beach, in an alley or stairwell to a building, parking garage (not in the car), airplane, movie theater, bathroom at a party, etc. If you are going to do a public restroom, I would go for also something a bit more secluded - like maybe a rest stop on the highway? Although, it's something I have never been able to bring myself to do because of how icky public restrooms are in general. Kills the mood for me.

The riskiest place I think I've ever done it was on the train while traveling in Italy. I'm pretty sure everyone in the other cars around us could see us, not to mention everyone at the stations we passed thru via the window. I felt lucky not to get caught that time - but it sure was fun!!

My other tips are to wear something that is easily accessible - like a short skirt, so that you don't actually have to take your clothes off or so that it at least makes it easier to cover up again quickly if need be. And if you go the dressing room route - definitely make sure you don't pick a place where the employees come knocking on the doors to see if you need anything, or where they closely monitor the fitting rooms. I think mens dressing rooms would be better, personally, for it seems that no employees are ever hanging around the mens rooms. Also, don't try to do it in a lingerie or sexy clothing store, because the employees keep a close eye on those rooms. Victorias Secrets around here won't even let a man near the fitting room area - and I don't blame them.

i couldnt even kiss in public, i felt it should stay indoors, but thats just my opinion

Altough i did hear the dressing rooms are a lot of fun, since i guess they have a lot of mirrors(haha, i dont shop, read it in a magazine)

Michael and I have been in a filled parking lot outside of karaoke. The rotation was LONG and we snuck outside between songs to my Jeep. EVERYONE knew where we were.

The first time we did there were two big vehicles on both sides of my Jeep so no one would see anything, but the second time we went out there there were two little cars.

The thrill was awesome, it wasn't completely dark out, and the minute we heard a group of people going to the car next to us. We hit the floor, well I did, I was on my back on the floor of the Jeep and he flattened on his stomach on the seats. :rolleyes:

It was such a rush. I think our laughing probably shook the vehicle more than anything we could've been doing. :p

Having sex outdoors as mentioned by Katiebug is great. I have done this many times and highly recommend it. The lastest for me was to do it in the backyard under a full moon. There ended up being three full moons that night. Giving her oral sex outdoors is something I really enjoy and it seems to intensify it for her since it is outside the bedroom. Just a little more exciting I guess. Same with finishing with intercourse.

Usually we do the outdoors thing when out camping or on vacation where we are away from other people. We have been caught a few times and have had to hurry and cover up or slip our clothes back on. I guess the people didn't really see what we were doing since they just kept walking by like nothing was happening. Otherwise they probably would have stopped and turned around or found another route to go. Maybe if we were seen, they may have just hidden and watched then gone away.

I did come across a couple the other day who were enjoying each other. I did the stay and watch them for awhile. I was in 2.5 miles on a mountain trail which followed a stream. I had gone out to do some nude hiking not expecting to come across very many people, but there are persons that skinny dip in areas on the trail. While I was skinny dipping this couple had walked by me and I waved at them. Later after getting out of the water I decided to hike up the trail a little further. As I was hiking, I noticed some red off of the trail down the hill right next to the stream so stopped to check it out. Most of the side of the trail was covered by trees and brush, but there were some openings through the brush to the stream which is where I saw the red. The red was a backpack and just below it was this same young couple with her layin on a nice flat rock and he was just slipping his swimsuit off. So I just stopped to see what was going to happen next and if they were going to do some skinny dipping or play with each other. If I would have kept going, I think they may have seen me and it would have ruined their fun. But he then slipped off her bikini bottom and they started to go at it. I watched for awhile and then she switched positions and got on top and they were doing just fine. I enjoyed watching her butt moving up and down. All of a sudden she jumped off and they grabbed their suits and put them back on and kept laughing. Just a few minutes later, another person came walking up the trail. They must have seen him which is why they stopped. Later on as I was hiking nude back to the car, I came across this same couple who had stopped to rest while hiking down the trail. Since they had seen me nude while skinny dipping and I had seen them (although I don't think they knew I had seen them), it made it easy for me to just walk by them and not worry about putting shorts on like I would normally do with people on the trail. I just said hi and hoped they enjoyed their hike and kept on walking.

If you do it outdoors, there is a chance you may be seen even with taking good precautions. Getiing caught is part of the reason it seems a little more exciting along with just doing it in a different location. I highly recommend sex outdoors with taking the proper precautions so you don't get arrested.

I was sort of 'traumatized' as a teenager. I was hanging out with some two of my friends, both of them had their girlfriends with them. Then out of the blue the two couples began making out (not with eachother, but as couples). There I was twiddling my thumbs waiting for a break in the tongue swapping. This took place at a time before I had even so much has even gone out on a date.

Ever since then I have always averted overt public dispays as a way to be considerate to those who haven't had or are in between relationships.

That said, I enjoy the two of us feeling eachother up at concerts (general admission area). It's strangely public yet private.

I did it with an ex in the mens changerooms in Myer. It was so good! There was no staff hanging around, and I think one other guy went to try something on, but we kept going! It was cool because there were all these mirrors around, and a seat. So he sat down with me on top, we did it up against the wall, and on the floor in missionary. Best day ever! Good thing about changerooms is, if you get caught, you can fix up your clothes before opening the door, and (make sure he has some sort of clothing from the store), it can be pulled off as an innocent trying-on thing =D