Well, I think I have accomplished the ultimate pleasure experiance for my g/f... Or have I?
I totally beleive her when she tells me I gave her an orgasm. First off, her and I are the only partners we have ever had. Plus we are pretty much virgins. We've done a lot of things. Just not the whole sexual intercourse yet. So, how did I do you ask? Fingering techniques learned from this very site!!!
So, here's my question. Does all of the things I'm about to describe, point out that I did give her an orgasm and the chance of a possible ejaculation?
First of all, when I begin to finger her, she is completley aroused, wet, and ready. I use my middle finger to "dig deep" to get to the G-spot, which is what I feel a ridgy, spongy part on the top wall of her insides. When I stick it in there fast without her knowing or anticipating it, and while I'm playing with her nipples with my tougne, she usually, most always, arches her back, and yelps, and then grabs my head, and I mean litterally forces my head into her chest, and grabs me. After I do this for about 5-10 mins or so, switching techniques, she's completley "rough" I guess you could say, and arches her back a lot more, and rocks to the motions of my finger stimulating her G-spot.... Then, when the "time" comes, when I suspect extreme climax, she grabs me so tight I think my eyes are about to pop out of my head and she pretty much freezes and still moves with my finger motions. This is a girl who has hardly any experiance or knowledge in the sex department. She didn't even know what the G-spot was, or what a clitoris was until I explained it all to her....
Finally, tonight I asked her if when she has an orgasm if she feels "built up pressure" inside her, and if it feels like she has to use the bathroom after she has an orgasm and she kinda looked surprised like, "how did you know that?" and said yes, and asked if it was bad. If I'm not mistaken, is that the female ejaculation? She says that it happens a lot when she has an orgasm, and it's hard for her to "hold back." Am I giving my g/f pleasure? Am I giving her the opprotunity to have an ejaculation? I wasn't sure of this answer, but is it true that if you let yourself ejaculate (females) that you will feel a lot more pleasure, sensation?
Thanks for any help!! 
Fritz1GD
one time i was fuckin this girl she was on top and we were slammin it so to speak all of a sudden i felt this hot rush of liquid all over me it was not warm but Hot when i pulled out a bunch of juise came out that was the first and only girl i've made ejaculate it was awsome the best part is tryin
Well I for one have never faked it. I see it as a waste of time. Why boost his ego if he's not really doing it for you? If he's doing a bad job and you're faking it, he's got this false since of being skillful and he'll keep doing what he's doing. If a guy's doing a bad job I definately like to let him know so he can do something different and hopefully get better.
Back to the original question...you'll never really know for sure if she's having an orgasm. Only she can tell you. Every girl is different so you'll never really know if that's how she reacts to hers.
tsk tsk Makale, he'll just get a false sense of victory if you fake it all the time. Is faking an orgasm with guys better than having an actual orgasm with your guy?
and i thought i read a million times that it's accepted that all girls ejaculate under the right orgasm, just the amount of ejaculate varies from woman to woman. Is that still accepted? Some girls just have so little ejaculate it's hard to tell?
I am a master at faking!! haha I don't think guys can ever get me off. Tried many ways, just doesn't happen. But seriously, even if she hasn't cummed it sounds like she's enjoying herself.
Tell her not to hold back if she wants to try ejaculating.
It is not peeing even though it seems like it and even though there can be urine involved.
Just know it will be wet and messy so get some towels.
It is not the end all of a great orgasm. It is just another way women can enjoy sex. It is pleasureable to release the tension that way and if you are both comfortable with it and want it do it. Lucid said it best.
well i hav never actually orgasmed but when i get close to an orgasm i start shaking...i get really hot (literally..like...warm temperatured lol) and i have to like bite somthing in order not to moan or breathe really loud.
Another thing i noticed is some start shaking and having contractions...
if you learn to feel her out more, and look for certain key signs, you can usually tell when shes satisfied so you can pull back and avoid any overstimulation. stomach tightening, fingers/toes clinching, stuff like that are things you should read for. also works great to get an idea of the pace you should be using
i heard ... HEARd, i never had it happen when i was at bat but...
Yea a girl cant actually pee whiel doing "things". If i am not mistaken if she tries to pee when it comes she will like have a better O.
Like i said i never had that happen to me so i would check with someone else but thats what i have heard in the past.
Anyhows man good luck!
When I stick it in there fast without her knowing or anticipating it, and while I'm playing with her nipples with my tougne, she usually, most always, arches her back, and yelps[QUOTE]
Everything sounds good except this, but i could be wrong every girl is differnt but the girls i have been with if they dont know that you are going to finger them and just ram it in there hard it hurts, maybe that is why when you first stick it in like that she "yelps". Try one time to go down there slowly and slide your finger in nice and easy once and then increase speed etc...I know with my first g/f we both never had any sexual experience and if i touched one spot wrong while i was in the process of sticking my finger in her she would do what i have quoted at the beginning of this and she said that it hurt....but hope i was of some help
1. You will never really know.
2. It is her orgasm, not yours. Do not identify yourself as the source of any woman's pleasure.
Lucid has said what needs be said.
question.. Why does it matter if she says she enjoys it so much? LOL let it happen if it does, by the sounds it probally has, but serious :P just ENJOY whatever is going on!