I was wondering if you all had any advice on this,
Whenever my girlfriend and I have sex int he misssionary position, two things start to happen.
First, things get dry. We use a lubricated condom and she produces lubrication when we start, but not later. We never have this problem in other positions. How can I keep he more aroused (and wetter!) in this position?
Second, I think that my penis might be at a weird angle when I thrust. After a few minutes, the condom gets stretched very tight over my penis. It could very well be that the dryness/friction in causing the condom to be stretched, but I'm also thinking that it might be an angle thing.
Any suggestions?


> I was wondering if you all had any advice on this,
> Whenever my girlfriend and I have sex int he misssionary position, two things start to happen.
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> First, things get dry. We use a lubricated condom and she produces lubrication when we start, but not later. We never have this problem in other positions. How can I keep he more aroused (and wetter!) in this position?
It is hard to know because you two may be doing something different in the Missionary position that you are not doing with the others. When having intercourse, how long before she dries up?
Are you on the brink of an orgasm when you begin intercourse, or, do you do lots of stroking in order to build up to the trigger point?
> Second, I think that my penis might be at a weird angle when I thrust.
When you stand or kneel, what angle does it assume? Second, is your penis essentially straight (regardless of the angle) or is the shaft curved? If curved, how much and where does it begin to curve?
> After a few minutes, the condom gets stretched very tight over my penis. It could very well be that the dryness/friction in causing the condom to be stretched, but I'm also thinking that it might be an angle thing.
I'm thinking that after a few minutes you are becoming extremely aroused and your penis feels like it is expanding just a bit more than normal as when masturbating. This is a typical sensation when in the company of a lover.
> Any suggestions?
Regardless of the position, if you are not at the brink of an orgasm when you begin intercourse, you are engaging way too early.
When she begins to dry, either use a lubricant, and/or, pull out and return to the basics in order to rebuild your ardor.
A lubricated condom is not really slippery. Lubricate it either with some of her mucus or a lubricant. Switch to regular condoms and add lubrication.
The solution to both issues, and more, is to add vaginal spermicidal jelly before beginning. She will need to buy a tube of vaginal with applicator the first time.
The spermicidal jelly in the vagina greatly enhances the effectiveness of the condom in contraception and also lubricates quite well. Read the brochure in the package.
Spermicidal condoms do not have enough spermicide to be really effective and there is, in your case, not enough for lasting lubrication.
[QUOTE=highschoolmale;189432]I was wondering if you all had any advice on this,
Whenever my girlfriend and I have sex int he misssionary position, two things start to happen.
First, things get dry. We use a lubricated condom and she produces lubrication when we start, but not later. We never have this problem in other positions. How can I keep he more aroused (and wetter!) in this position?
Second, I think that my penis might be at a weird angle when I thrust. After a few minutes, the condom gets stretched very tight over my penis. It could very well be that the dryness/friction in causing the condom to be stretched, but I'm also thinking that it might be an angle thing.
Any suggestions?[/QUOTE]
It can also have to do with foreplay. Do u rush into things? Do u "play" around a bit before penetration?
Learning from past experiences with me and my girlfriend, I used to never make-out/finger/oral with her before penetrating her. It became a problem because she always told me that she wasn´t really in the "mood". So.. My suggestions would be, try to spend more time on oral sex before going in her, and if possible, try teasing her, find out where she likes being licked the most, and lick right next to it and see what her reaction would be like, i usually do that with my girl till she cant take it any longer and forces my mouth against her clit :)
If you do the prep work, the results are tremendous!
Always use lubricant specially designed for sex.
Make sure you are using the correct size of condom.
Do foreplay until she's screaming for you.
While in the male superior position, do not JUST do thrusting penetration, you have a mouth and two hands - use them too.