howdy i just got a question, the other day my GF and I decided to take it a bit further, ive already given her a few orgasms and we decided to try it out on me, so she gives me head, but i couldnt finish, so we just gave up after awhile. It was the first time i have ever recieved head and i was just wondering if this is something that happens often, i ended up feeling like an idiot for some reason or another but i was just wondering whats up, any insite into this would be helpful thanks alot :)
Sat, 03/04/2006 - 18:23
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problems with head???
First, you did not give her orgasms. She had them.
Second, it is not unusual for young men to not be able to reach climax through any particular form of stimulation. Not her fault, not your fault. It happened. How does it work with handjobs?
sorry wrong choice of words. yes she has had several orgasms, and we actually havent tryed a handjob yet. it went straight to head. althought i figure ill just stick to pleasuring her, i enjoy it more than her attempting to do it to me, atleast at this stage and im pretty sure she enjoys it more aswell. owell, thank u very much for the info.
Hey, Don't worry about it, this happened to me for my first time, so its pretty common so dont feel like an idoit :)
This link will take you to a thread from a couple of days ago. You can read it all, however, please pay particular attention to my second reply. It will answer each of your original questions and comments.
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/pleasing_her/16610-cant_make_gf_orgasm_-...
In short:
* Teach each other how each of you masturbate so you can mimic each others moves
* Have her combine a hand job with oral to get you off
* Give each other verbal and/or non-verbal feedback on how each of you are responding to the other's caresses and for what you need now.
* Look around the forrum and do some searches. You will find these same matters addressed time and time again and in great detail.
After reading the other thread, feel free to ask if you have additional questions or concerns.
My guy can never achieve an orgasm by me only giving him a blow job. If I did it for several hours, perhaps, but not for a short period.
So, yeah...it's normal dude.