Ok........I've had sexual relationships before with several women. but i'm having a slight problem with my present patner. Her vagina is quite small but i don't know if that has any connection to her height (5'7). I've tried KY jelly, but it's not doing the trick. I can get the head of my penis inside but any further and she starts feeling pain.
Baring in mind she has never had sex via penis penetration and only by oral simulation of the clitoris. Are there any solutions to this problem besides being very patient?
thanks mate.........great advice
There is more resistance caused by muscles as a woman gets nervous than by anything else. Women are most relaxed and receptive immediately AFTER an orgasm.
no not really
and 5'7 is pretty tall
its not like she's 4'11 but im not sure height and size are always together.
if its her first time it could take awhile.
id suggest TONS of foreplay which loosens up the vagina and relaxes all those muscles down there.
can you tell if her hymen is still there? you'll see kind of a flap of skin that kinda covers the entrance to the vagina.
if she's not been fingered or used tampons...etc. it could still be there.
some women have "hymen of steel" i think one girl on here described her's. no matter how much they forced it, it just wouldn't tear. some girls hymens are so tough, its better for them to go to the DR and have them "knick" it w/ a scapel to allow a clean tear. otherwise it could be very painful and messy.
also, during foreplay finger her w/ 1, then work up to 2, maybe 3 i dunno how big your fingers are lol.
this way you can gradually work up and stretch her out some.
just takes patience and work very slow and continue to use lots of lube.
you will get there eventually. don't give up on her