Me and my girl have tried to have sex three times. The first time i coudlent get hard at all, the second time i did get hard and i aws doing it for a while but diddnt cum, then i tride again and again i diddnt get hard. Im a young dude (teens) and not vey experince smae with her. Is there something wrong with me. Also i do masturbate so could it be that effecting me. Any help would be great thanks
Mon, 10/11/2004 - 04:47
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problem...cant get hard
I have a problem, several times I'm with my girlfriend and we are playing for ages, and am hard, then I feel like I need to urinate so I go and do that and when I come back I can't get hard again. This has happened on several occasions and I am worried now. Also, another problem is when I am doing it with my girlfriend for a long time and I still haven't cum, my penis turns heaps flacid and not hard anymore, until its so soft that it comes out and I can't finish off.
Only need to post once dude.
Anyways, if you aren't that experienced and are new to sex and this girl then its probably nothing more than nerves and anxiety. If you are getting erections through masturbation, then its not a physical thing.
Read around the site, there are other people who go thru the same thing. Its not uncommon.