well this is kinda weird problem but i have no problem getting off or keeping it up during sex but when i just lay down and recieve oral i will not be able to finish i also have trouble keeping it up sometimes, which i find weird.
I am thinking maybe its because i like to be in control, but it really is too bad because i enjoy it and it makes my GF feel bad.
yeah you are probably right, it seems like if i am on top its all good but once she tries to take charge i kinda get turned off.
weird...
Sounds like you already know what the issue is - you're a bit of a control freak....you want to make sure SHE's happy first, and/or you feel uncomfortable letting someone else be in control of the sexual situation!
Guess what - being a control freak is VERY UNATTRACTIVE in a long term relationship! Time to start changing that behavour ASAP!
Go cold turkey! Have your GF put a blindfold on you..and use some scarves to tie u to the bed and LEARN to let go!
Sex is supposed to be reciprochal! Give and take! love and be loved!