I suspect you will find that most women guide him in most of the time. In my younger days, I used it as the last check to determine that the condom was all the way on and have always found it more convenient than waiting for him to get it right. It is frustrating to have him go off while searching. It is part of the play to guide him.

have you tried holding it while puting it in?

lol i have the same problem XD well kinda well my gf helps me out with that... so just talk to her