Hey.. My boyfriend sometimes has this problem of not being able to reach orgasm. He says he has had it since he was a virgin. He will be completely hard and can perform for a very long time, get a lot of pleasure, and still won't be able to cum. He is really worried about it, but he won't go see a doctor. I told him that it is probably nothing to worry about because it doesn't happen all the time, but I guess that it happens frequently enough is cause for concern. He is only 20 so it doesn't really make sense for him to have problems early on. He does have depression, so could that be the cause of it? Any help would be appreciated. Thanks!
Joanna
Tue, 01/23/2007 - 23:01
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Problem Ejaculating
Do a google search or a board search for the term
Retarded Ejaculation
Demon gives you one possibility and you describe the other - depression. If he is worried and chooses not to talk to a doctor about it, he is living with a voluntary condition.
Do you want to live with his voluntary condition?
You mention he has depression. Does he take any medication? I was on Zoloft once and it took forever to cum. I understand most of the other antidepressents have sexual side effects as well.