hiya, basically i havent yet came inside my girlfriend and i dont know why...sometimes i feel close too it and it just fades away, i wear a condom and im sure this is the reason, i wore extra thin last time and it improved alot but i still never came, im on medicine for my epilepsy, its called epillum chromo and i hope this isnt the reason.
if you think its coz of my meds plz give me a website that i can talk to a proffesional doctor or something to ask about that, i dont want too go too my own gp or anything
id also like to ask if this is still considered sex...like sex without ejaculation...i dunno, do you have to ejaculate during sex too lose your virginity? i dunno why im talking about virginity coz im not a virgin but still please answer the qweuestion coz it helps.
please answer me :(
No, you don't have to cum for it to be considered sex. It might help out if she starts you off orally, or with her hand for a while. I don't know anything about your medical condition, but if you get that close to cumming, it sounds like it could be nerves to me. one more thing, it can take a while for people to comment on post, hours or days sometimes, just be patient, someone will most likly get to you.
im way past nerves but you could be right it could be sub conciouse that i am not aware of, thanks for your reply.
Also, if you just that into it at the moment, that happens to me sometimes.
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> i havent yet came inside my girlfriend and i dont know why...sometimes i feel close too it and it just fades away, i wear a condom and im sure this is the reason, i wore extra thin last time and it improved alot but i still never came,
1.) When it the scheme of things to you put on the condom?
2.) How much stroking do you do before you feel you are close to an orgasm?
3.) Do you have problems climaxing when masturbating?
If you are rolling a condom on too early in your arousal process and then stroking and stroking and stroking then you are going about the process all wrong.
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If you have difficulty climaxing while masturbating, then we probably have another issue to discuss. If you can enjoy orgasms either by masturbating or with a hand job then the trouble is probably with the dulling effect of the condom, putting it on too early, or not yet having accustomed yourself to the lighter feel of intercourse.
Wait until you are on the brink of an orgasm before putting on the condom. Before you do, lubricate the Glans of your penis in order to give it some wiggle-room or freedom of movement within the condom. Doing so will help transmit more friction.
Wait until you are on the brink of an orgasm before beginning intercourse.
> im on medicine for my epilepsy, its called epillum chromo and i hope this isnt the reason.
I looked up Epillum and did not read about any conflict between its use and having erections or becoming aroused. Again, how do you respond when masturbating or receiving a hand job?
You are on a very serious psychotropic drug. Doc may not have found the issues but there are some physiological similarities between myoclonic seizure and orgasm. It is possible that epilim may retard orgasmic reaction.
You MUST discuss this with YOUR doctor. No other doctor is aware of the type seizure, the other presenting symptoms, what other drugs have been tried and with what results. These drugs have a ramp up time and a withdrawal period. The doscage should not be messed with.
Treatment of mature adults is a bit different from the treatment of adolescents. It may be time for your doctor to revisit the dose or even the drug. But it must be the doctor with your records and background. Epilepsy comes in many forms and any doctor who would give you any medication advice beyond what I have is irresponsible. SEE YOUR GP!