okay, my boyfriend and i have been discussing having sex for quite some time.
and the only thing stopping us is my birth control, (i have to wait so i know im regulated)
and his sister.
its kind of complicated because her and i used to be really good friends, then i started liking her brother, she got mad.
starting dating her brother, she got pissed!
and we hangout probably once every week and she knows about us talking abut sex.
though shes very against it and has threated me not to do it with her brother.
i dont know if shes pissed because its her brother, or im her friend, or shes just trying to look out for me.
im in the dark, i know shell find out if we have sex. and i want to and he wants to, and hes mad about her caring, i dont know what to say to either of them..
any help? PLEASE :o
I can understand it being freaky for her but if you and him are truely happy together she should accept it and let you be happy, if she was a good friend she would. I don't think you should listen to her about sex, if you both want to do it then do it!! :)
well you should call his sister and ask her why she doesnt like you going out with her brother. then ask her if she would rather have her friend go out with her brother rather than a girl she doesnt even know. and i dought she will have a good excuse to why she doesnt want you to go out with her brother.
oh believe me, ive called her on it,
she replies that, were too young, its too soon.
though shes admitted to liking me going out with him rather than some raunchy hoe.. lol
she still has it in her mind that i used her to get to him, inwhich i NEVER did or will do.
im not like that, and the only reason we stopped talking (for sometime) was because she was angry at me and i didnt want to make it worse..
gaaa im caught in a bind
any help? anyone..
pleasee
okay, well obviously she wasnt/isnt a very good friend! she really does need to get over the fact that you and her brother are going out. i'v been out with many of my friends brothers and my mates are always happy 4 us and they dont get involved in anything, lilke if we fight and all that. u need to tell ur boyfriends sis to pul her head in and get used to the fact that u and her bro are together. she should be happy for you. was she like a really good friend before? i realy cant see why shes so angry, maybe go and talk to her when ur boyfriend isnt there.
yeah.. we were like best kinda.
And i didnt either and i do talk ot her all the time about it, and she just refuses to accept the fact that weve been dating and have been considering sex, like she isnt comfortable about it, shes a tomboy and i guess you could say there close, and since me dating her brother weve fallen out of best friendship relationship kinda thing? lol
were good but not like we used to be, im just confused, like i wanna slap her until shes okay with it, lmao :)
Why are you confused? It is her problem.
Whether you and he have sex is your business not hers.
easier said then done,
i dont wanna hurt her feelings
Oh so she can hurt yours but you cannot hurt hers?
All you have to do is to not talk on this subject and change the subject when she brings it up. If she persists you may say "That is not a subject I wish to discuss." and then stick to that!
aha, ooo good call.
lol im kinda dumb so i miss the obvious most of the time.. lol
aha ill try that! thanks evil :):)