I started going out with my girlfriend on July 4th and it is August 11th so 5 weeks and since we've been going out we've been pretty sexually active but she lives about 20 miles away so I dont get to see her very often just every weekend and sometimes during the week. She's 16 and I'm 18. She is a virgin and plans to keep it that way til we or she gets married but I am not a virgin. We've been getting off by me rubbing my dick between her legs and her grinding but we haven't had intercourse. We're scared of her getting pregnant and her period isn't due til the 25th last time we had "sex" she had her period normally. We'd just like to know the statistics or chances of getting pregnant and still being a virgin. I had heard from Dr. Drew on Love Line that it's like a 1 in a million chance of the girl getting pregnant and still being a virgin so I'd just like to verify that.
Thankyou.
Sun, 08/12/2007 - 05:05
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Pregnant Virgin?
Here is a quiz for you:
1. Does every teenage girl have an intact hymen?
2. Does the presence of a hymen mean that the vaginal opening is completely capped off?
3. Is there ever a case when a hymen is not present in a girl who has not had intercourse?
Years ago there was a popular TV quiz show called "Truth or Consequences". It might be making the rounds on the satellite Game Show channel. Here is a truth that would not have been the topic of discussion in the decade the show was on the air.
Consider that any time you have a penis anywhere near a woman's vulva there is a chance of her becoming pregnant. A girl in her teens is more apt to become pregnant than at any other time for a variety of reasons. You should consider that the two of you are playing Russian Roulette, only instead of using a six shooter with one bullet in the chamber, you have a fully loaded cannon with live ammo in it. Unless you have a condom over the "barrel", never get it within firing range or dribbling distance of her vulva. If you do, are either of you prepared to handle the possible consequences?
If you are going to rub your penis anywhere near or on her genitals, wear a condom. If she is going to allow you to get your jollies this way, she needs to be using a contraceptive. Both of you need to look out for and protect #1.
If your ejaculate or precum comes into contact with her vaginal mucus, runs, dribbles, or scores a hole in one (shot), there is a very good chance she can become pregnant.
> We've been getting off by me rubbing my dick between her legs and her grinding but we haven't had intercourse. We're scared of her getting pregnant
If you are scared, why in the H-E-eleven aren't you taking responsibility for your actions before giving into your urges by gathering the facts beforehand? I bet if I asked you if you would protect her from harm, you would respond with "of course" or something similar. How is this behavior protecting her or placing her best interests first and foremost?
It's pretty simple...if you semen comes in contact with the vaginal fluids she can get pregnant...virgin or not. Does it happen YEAP! Try to explain this one to a patient when they are pregnant...Don't bet on your stats...
This is ridiculous! How many times must I say it?
If you are going to indulge in adult play, you have to be adult about it.
WHERE'S YOUR CONDOM? NO CONDOM = NO SEX.
Yeah, yeah you're just grinding away - PFFFT. It is your semen - take care of it. That way you'll not have to worry about her getting pregnant - DUH!
(that sound you hear is me grinding my teeth)
I have delivered babies from "virgins." No bare penis should be within a foot of a pudenda.