but theoretically, i know that the way to become pregnant is when the sperm fertilizes the egg. so technically i guess u dont need to have sex to get pregnant. keeping this in mind, what are the chances of me being pregnant if my boyfriend was just rubbing his penis (with pre-cum on it) on the entrance of my vagina? i highly doubt i'm pregnant, but i'm just curious if anyone knows the chances because im a few days late on my period.
Wed, 09/08/2004 - 18:56
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Pregnant from pre-cum?
trust me when i say i know how you are feeling right now. like demon buttercup said, stress can delay your period, so if you are really stressed out, it might come even later. also, if you were stressed out around ovulation time you might skip this period.
if i'm not mistaken, it's the few days right after your period that you are the least likely to get pregnant, because the unfertilised egg has exited during bleeding, and you haven't ovulated the next one yet... probably., remember that sometimes weird things happen and going by what day it is is not fool proof any more than trusting precum to not get you pregnant. especially if you are younger.
i went through what you are a year ago (almost the exact same circumstances) and ended up starting my period 2 weeks late - after being on time month after month for a looong time (i'm 21.) i don't let even precum get close to my vaginal opening now.
also remember that early in pregnancy, tests can give you a false negative (but not a false positive,) so be careful until you know for sure (no alcohol/drugs/smoking, eat good food to get plenty of vitamins such as folic acid, get plenty of rest, etc. you can never be too safe with those things.)
best wishes to you and i hope this turns out all right. if you test negative but still don't start, watch for other pregnancy symptoms and maybe visit a doctor.
yeah totally.
you stressing over it can also delay your period but if it doesn't come soon i would definelty get a test.
hopefully it will be negative and you will have learned your first lesson in how scary it can be. just be safer next time.
just because he wiped off the precum he saw, doesn't mean more didn't ooze out when he got excited from rubbing you.
well still didn't get it. but technically im only 4 days late so its not really that bad...but usually im more regular than this so i don't understand it. however, in spite of myself if i AM pregnant it might be the most hysterical thing i've ever heard (yeah sure i say that NOW). what are the chances that this could possibly happen to me when a) we didnt have sex, b) he told me he made sure that there was no precum on his penis before we started doing that, and c) we did it so close to when my period is supposed to come, which is the time of ur cycle u are least likely to get pregnant? cosmo true life stories, here i come
but as i'm making a joke out of this, i am positively crapping myself. if i don't get it in a few days i guess i'll hafta buy a pregnancy test. but thanks for replying.
Sweating out a late or skipped period is no more fun for him than for her. Pre cum with a teen guy.....at a time in his life when his sperm count is at its highest....is a danger. Fear for teen girls along with so many of the other pressures & stresses they are under in those years can lead to missed periods and other probems.
His pre cum is like his lube...it's a secreation from his prostrate gland....but it still is ducted thru his testicles where it could pick up some sperm cells. His orgasm will send a volume...a teaspoon to a tablespoon or more...of the prostrate glands secreation thru his reproductive system where it can flush millions of sperm cells into his ejaculation. One sperm cell connecting with your egg could be all it will take. Yet if you study the female reproductive tract it is a wonder how women get pregnant at all. Still if the circumstances are right...they do.
Somehow I don't see the description of what happened as being that much a threat...my opinion.
Use protection
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Hey hon...I come from a long line of medical people and am studying medicine right now so I think I can kinda help you out here. YES!!! It is possible to get pregnant from the sperm found in precum. Thats also why "pulling out" isnt always a fool-proof birth control method. Along with that comes the other possibilities and dangers (STDs). All I can really tell you is to not take any chances. Make him strap up. NO MATTER WHAT!!! As far as you being pregnant depending how many days late you are I would say to take a pregnancy test. And if your not late enough to get accurate results from a test all I can tell you is to wait it out. I KNOW that that can be really stressful but...And if your a teenager remember that our periods are notorious for being irregular.
yes technically its possible. sperm can be present in precum.
most likely you are ok but stranger things have happened.
especially if say he fingered you afterwards or something of that nature.