[QUOTE=Quote (xXxIrAsLaDyXxX @ Sep. 08 2005,19:12)]Ok I just found out today that i am pregnant i need reassurance and comfort help me please............. my second kid and i am not sure i am ready[/QUOTE]
if you really are so worried I am not sure what you should do. But from what I have read in your posts you are sure to be a great mother of two.

I was on birth control religiously since I was 15. Now 19 and pregnant. I was on birth control at the time. Some things are just meant to be. Children are a blessin I love them!!!

Yes, I recommend every new parent or expecting parent take a cpr or basic life saving course through your local red cross chapter or fire station.

One of the biggest killers of babies is respiratory arrest. you can save your child by learning how to give them breath and do chest compressions, if necessary. You can also be trained to not totally freak out if your child chokes on something, which a LOT do! Children love to explore with their new little mouths!

And yeah, think about birth control if you weren't ready. Two kids at 19? that would be hard for anyone to handle, but you do realize how you got pregnant. There are plenty of ways to avoid having 3 kids by the time you're 22, if you would rather not be in that situation.

The pill, the shot, the patch, etc.

I'd add that good parenting is not an instinct. Frankly, I see way too many "young" parents who seem to think that as long as they really want a baby and love the idea everything will be "okay."

Parenting is a skill and it requires as much skill as it does love. It's really not just about age, either... A while back I met a young couple planning to have their first child... they were taking a CPR course... and had a list of things they wanted to learn and do before their child was born.

Not a bad idea!

[QUOTE=Quote (Jm33 @ Sep. 08 2005,20:53)]When I found out I was so amazed. How in the world??? [/QUOTE]
LOL... I hope you've figured that one out...

Having a baby is a great responsibility... but, it's also a great joy.  Best wishes (to you both) for having a happy, healthy baby.  

If you are concerned about having more children, there are ways to make sure it doesn't happen again.  If I were female, I'd look into those.

My sister is 17 and is in labor with her first child. She is very scared about not being able to take care of her baby girl. I say us women are prepared to take on anything in thiss world and we know what we have to do in order to make our children have everything they need and everything that we didnt have ourselves as children.

You may be scared or nervous about it now but what you do as a mother reflects on how you are as a person and vice versa. You will be fine, believe me. Those children will be the most important thing in your life and you will do anything that you have to do to make sure you do the right thing as a mother.

Remember those kids only have one mother and what you do reflects on who they are when they grow up, you only have one chance, if you are smart you wont screw it up. I believe in you as a woman.

I am 19 and am 5 1/2 months pregnant. When I found out I was so amazed. How in the world??? But as time passed on and I started experiencing all the things that come with pregnancy I loved the idea that I was having a baby. It is ur second so you know what goes on, what is the deal? You don't want to have a child or are you just surprised that you are having another one? Girl you are getting married and you are happy and you have a family, that is what us women are here for, enjoy it!!! Good Luck!!!

Congratulations! (again) That's twice in two days, this is starting to be a habit.

First of all, everything will be fine. You're getting married in a week, so you don't have time to be nervous about this now. Besides, you've been through it before, so you know what to expect. Relax and focus on enjoying your wedding.

I wish you the best of everything.