when i read this post i was very shocked and i had to read it again incase i read wrong. i understand that people can make mistakes but this isn't a mistake this was a decision and a very unwise one. by reading this post anybody (including myself) would think that your girlfriend wants a baby, which i'm sure she doesnt. you are both very very young to be having sex anyway so i would have thought protection would have been your first thought of importance. i know it seems like everyone on the post is lecturing you more than giving advice, but i think this is the most shocking post i have ever layed my eyes on. people may remember from my posts from when i first had sex and how worried i was after (more paranoid) i was histarical that i could be pregnant, but when my period came i was relieved ( we did use protection) but the point i'm trying to make is, sex affects you emotionally and is hard to deal with. i find it hard to beleive that you have been having sex for the past month and neither of you have stopped to think 'hey this is risky, you could be pregnant?' so is all i can end my post with, is the best of luck to both of yous and i hope these posts are making you think for next time, if there is a next time!!

[QUOTE=Quote (demonbuttercup @ Aug. 30 2003,20:14)]"If you can't afford 75 cents for a condom, how the heck do you think you're going to afford to raise a kid or pay child support for the next 18 years?"

"a few dollars for condoms doesn't even compare to the cost of raising a kid or getting an abortion."[/QUOTE]
Somekid, I pray that this is only a learning experience for you and your g/f and that you're not thrown into the abyss of teen pregnancy. With all of the information available to teens today, it's unfathomable that that the two of you have made such an uninformed decision. What's done is done and I hope things work out for you both.

If she's pregnant, I hope you're man enough to stand by and support her since you were "man" enough to put her in an undesireable situation. If she's not, you dodged a bullet. There is always an excuse for simple stupidity, but there is no excuse for not taking the adequate steps to protect yourselves. If you can't afford protection, you have absolutely NO business putting your girlfriend's life in danger with a pregnancy. Good luck to you both.

How can you be so uninformed...... playing with fire doesnt even compare to what u 2 r doing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The only thing i can offer you is that from what ur saying i think you means its been 15 days since her last period, not that shes 15 days late, to clarify for other posters. Secondly, if she's worrying and stressed and tense i believe this could cause her to be tighter(there are muscles there too).

Just realized you would know if shes pregnant by now. Man do i feel stupid for posting this.lol.

no protection....... wow. if you guys have been sleeping together for a month then she probably alrdy is pregnant. and you guys are 15 and 14...... umm all i can say is good luck

can't wait to see how you feel when ur a father at the age of 15.  

HOLY SH**! how could anybody in this day and age be this un-informed? and expecially at your age! don't they teach you anything at school? unprotected sex is only to be used if you want children. Condoms are not expensive, and even if they were i'd still buy them because it would be worth it. Now i wouldn't normally say this but i'm sure your parents have condoms tucked away somewhere so steal some and use PROTECTION!!!!!!!!!!!!!! stealing is wrong but it's a hell of a lot better than having sex with the risk of pregnancy. Did you even think about what you were doing? or was it just a spur of the moment thing?

The tightness of her vagina does not mean that she is pregnant. It could be some irritation or an STD. You will not be able to successfully use a pregnancy test if she just had her period 15 days ago, you have to wait until she actually misses the next cycle. You are playing with fire. She can get pregnant whether or not you cum in her. Talk to your parents, both of you, and get some birth control. Be smart, don't waste your young lives.

If you are 14 and 15 years old and cannot afford to have sex-do not have it! I am young also, and I am shocked to hear that people are still this ignorant. Hoping for the best is going to get her pregnant. Maybe you should just make some money to buy condoms, and until then you should not be having sex anyway...this is really dangerous. Please be careful.

I have no idea what the early signs of pregnancy are, but if you've been sleeping with her regularly for a month, theres a pretty good chance she could be pregnant!

If you're lucky enough that she's not pregnant, start using protection immediately! If you can't afford 75 cents for a condom, how the heck do you think you're going to afford to raise a kid or pay child support for the next 18 years? Even if she got an abortion, somebody's going to have to fork over money for it.

The second thing: 100% false. As soon as the penis enters the vagina unprotected, theres a chance for pregnancy. The absolute best way to tell if she's pregnant would be for her to see her doctor. If thats not an option I guess one of the home pregnancy tests...

man
i thought kids today were getting a little bit smarter when it came to being sexually active.
come on...use protection!!!

like the others said... a few dollars for condoms doesn't even compare to the cost of raising a kid or getting an abortion.
most kids get an allowance eh? save that up to buy condoms.
use your lunch money from school. dont eat lunch for a week and buy some. collect pennies and roll them up and buy some. there are many ways to come up w/ a few bucks.

are you using the withdrawl method or are you just coming inside her and hoping for the best?
yeah the best bet is to buy a home pregnancy test which those are like $10-13 bucks.. think of all the condoms you could have bought for the price of that!!
otherwise go to a health dept. or something like that to get a test done.
good luck!

SHIT MAN WATCH OUT!!!!! YOU ARE LEADING A TOUGH ROAD HERE. NO CONDOM NO BIRTH CONROL!!!! SEX IS A SERIOUS THING THESADAYS!!! GET WITH THE PROGRAM.

As for the hruting when you finger her ... her being tighter... i don't know much about that Someone help me out on that one. But i would gear on my best guess... to go no cuz i mean a baby only grows so much in 1 month ... like maybe a centimeter or something( i donno just guessing lol probly not that no where near that probly ) But i donno maybe it is tight cuz of the fluid that is around the baby if she is indeed pregnant but my guess is no.... i don't know too much abou that.

As for the condoms GET SOME CONDOMS!!!! THEY COST LESS THAN IT WOULD TAKE TO TAKE CARE OF A BABY!!!!!! GET THEM! MOW LAWNS FOR THEM GET A JOB!!! DO ANYTHING. And as for birth control get your girl to a doctor with a really good girlfriend who's mom is cool and will take her to the doctor cuz you can get them by someone else cuz they came up with that law cuz of all the SMART girls who wanna have sex but not tell their parents so get her on those too.

As for the first time having sex... YES YOU CAN GET PREGANT BUT THAT! That first time a penis goes into the vagina and you guys have sex and there is pre cum and by that point it is most likely then yes! YOU CAN GET PREGNANT FROM TEH FRIST TIME AND PRECUM YOU CAN GET PREGNANT!

As for the 15 days late thing... yes she could be pregnant but ... if her period is off a couple of days ehre and there like any other girl then it could just be she is unregular liek anyone else. But keep in mind she could be pregnant. I would suggest buying an E.P.T at your local supermarket or corner store and BUY it to see if she is pregnant you wanna be sure and not worry.

HOPE I SCARED YA CUZ YOU NEED IT..... THERE HAS BEEN NO RESEARCH ON YOUR OR HER PART OR ANY PRECAUTIONS!!!! VERY BAD!!! When going into these thigns... nowadays.. not only do you have to worry about pregancy you also have to worry about std's and aids/hiv GET INFORNMATION INTO YOU BRAIN!!!! YOU NEED IT!!!!!!

AND GET TO A DOCTOR GET HER ON THE PILL ..... GET CONDOMS... GET AN E.P.T  NOW !! And be more careful.... sex is a serious thing!  Treat it with maturity and always have fun You guy gotta be more mature than this!

ALSO PLANNED PARENTHOOD GIVE OUT CONDOMS FOR A SMALL DONATION... SO ANY OF WHICH YOU KNOW GO TEHRE!