well recently i have just become sexually active with my girlfriend. i had lost my virginity to one of her x friends earlier.. about 11 months ago. (they did not break friendship because of me, just they didnt see each other that often)
well.. i have questions about pre cum. i seem to do it every time we get in the mood. does it contain semen?
while i posted here also. i cant seem to get her to want to be on top. any suggestions on how to get that to happen?:D
> i have questions about pre cum. i seem to do it every time we get in the mood.
Precum serves two functions; first as a cleansing agent that purges the ductwork (urethra) of stuff harmful to sperm; second, as a temporary lubricant.
Precum appears on the tip of the glans whenever a guy becomes aroused. Its presense alerts the couple that the man has become turned on! although not necessarily ready for sex or intercourse. The solution can be spread around the glans and used as a temporary lubricant.
> does it contain semen?
The safe answer is "yes", and I believe a couple should behave as if precum always contains sperm; although this is not always the case.
Precum does not contain any sperm if the bladder was recently emptied and the guy has not ejaculated between then and now. Precum does contain some sperm when its appearance follows an ejaculation, such as when you are trying for a second or third climax that day and before urinating, again.
> while i posted here also. i cant seem to get her to want to be on top. any suggestions on how to get that to happen?
Here is a link from a couple of days ago that may be of assistance to the two of you:
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/pleasing_her/20226-me_top_what_do.html
I suggest reading the thread together. It may just be that she does not know what to do and/or how to go about it. If so, this should give her the confidence she needs. If it is a matter of embarassment or shyness, then all you can do is to talk to her about this and make no demands upon her. As she becomes more comfortable with herself, you, and the relationship; and, as she gains more insight and information, she may just decide to broaden her sexual repertoire. Give her time.
Here are some benefits she may like to know about:
* The Woman Superior position places her in control of events to follow
* She knows where your penis is and where her vaginal opening is and can easily and deftly bring the two together. For a couple new to sex, this can save the man some possible angst and embarassment with regard to finding the entrance.
* For a virgin with an intact hymen, the position permits her to position the tip of the penis against the largest opening in the membrane (assuming there is one or more); or, alongside the hymen and vaginal wall. Doing either often makes first penetration easier.
* The position lets the woman control the angle, depth, and speed of initial penetration
* The position lets the woman control the rhythm and depth of the strokes
* The position is one of the best for stimulating her clitoris during intercourse
* While on top, she controls the speed of your arousal as well as her own, and to some extent, the timing of the finish
+ The benefits for you are that you have a different view of her and can watch her "work"
+ You can hold and steady her breasts in order to keep them from bouncing around
+ In addition, you can fondle and caress them
+ You can still finger her genitals if needed or desired
+ You can do pelvic lifts in order to further stimulate you
+ You can just enjoy laying back and letting her have her way with you in all that she chooses to do
Yes, pre cum contains sperm.