Hey,
Im a 17 yr old virgin, and me and my gf have been talking about having sex for the first time.
Well my first time, she had done it many a times with her previous bf.
but im understandibily nervous about the whole thing.
But i think im ready.
The thing that is troubling me the most is "pre-cum"
wen me and my gf are getting intimate, wenever it has a hint of sexual vibe, i can feel myself "pre-cumming" ever so slightly.
Its not much at all, as all i need to do is wipe the tip and its gone.
But im worried this is a sign of regualar PE during sex.
any words of advice would be ever so appreciated.
Pre-cum is like natural lube and for many men it's natural for that to leak out when you're aroused. Nothing to worry about here. Me, I wish I leaked pre-cum more easily so I wouldn't have to go and dig out the lube whenever I wanted to mastrubate.
CAUTION!! Pre-cum contains sperm and can get a woman pregnant, even if you don't actually penetrate her! Just rubbing an uncovered erect penis against her pubic area could potentially cause pregnancy and/or disease transmission.
It's definatly perfectly normal! And it makes it far easier to help masturbate my boyfriend when he does it, (though I admit to internally smiling everytime it happens, it's kinda flattering to know he's sexually aroused by me and my attentions)
However! Like Moose said, Pre-cum can cause Pregnancy and can spred STDs...
well thts a load of my mind (no pun intended)
thanks a lot guys!!
seriiously!
ps: I was previously aware tht pre-cum stil could get a girl pregnant, but thanks for that added advice:)
Here is some additional information.
In addition to being a temporary lubricant, precum's second purpose is to cleanse the urethra and make the passageway safe for sperm.
The appearance of precum is an indication of your early arousal, much as is the case with the appearance of vaginal mucus. Neither is a sign that we are presently ready for intercourse.
> But im worried this is a sign of regualar PE during sex.
This is a wrong assumption. You may find that you suffer from Premature Ejaculation as is quiet common with teens and guys in their early-mid twenties; however, one has nothing to do with the other.
If you are worried about PE and how to control it, please do a forum search on the topic using my name as well as Brandye's.