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[ahsanbbs]

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[Ducy]

Originally Posted by Sexybaby7864

People may have keybordes but i have my cell phone i get on here with so its much much easyer to text talk to me srry but had to say something

I do all web surfing from my phone. Hell I have even typed and submitted resumes and emails from my phone. If I can type in plain english then people can too. It has taken me all of 1 minute to type this reply and I don't believe I haz 2 talk lyke diz. So come on people use english. I can understand other countries and things being lost in translation but its ridiculous how many people "seem talk like this cuz wanna save time typing reply and when typing questions"

Also to the guy above me. Nobody is gonna send you the pictures. Your going to have to download drivers to see them (which seems weird cuz I can see the pics from my phone)

[sexkitten05]

how do I delete my account?

[moderatorIII]

We typically do not delete accounts, preferring to let unused accounts hibernate and eventually go into the archive after a few days.

[sensualGoddess]

...actually this is a good question, while I have no plans on deleting mine soon, I'm wondering how much bandwith this site has. Eventually, (I don't know how long this site is...) if someone has not responded or contributed to this site in a long time...(like 3-5 years) I could see where deleting accounts would be a sound idea.

Also, if a person does request to have their accounts removed...what would be wrong with complying with that request?

I'm just curious.

I don't know, but I've been viewing the site since 2006, a long while back, but did not become a member until sometime last year...

But, can it be a consideration that those who do not wish to use their accounts any longer have their accounts deleted?

[RedRoses]

Dear moderators,
I have just a little question about the guidelines. For a while now I've been a bit confused on what is and what isn't considered appropriate language Now, I know this website has high standards and I much appreciate it!!! As I do appreciate that you moderators take your time to tidy things up; thank you!

I'm not trying to start a discussion on what is or what isn't. Since I thought this information could be useful to others, I made it into a post, instead of PM. I'm simply asking because I do my best to stick to the appropriate language on this forum and I'd like to keep it that way!

So; I was under the impression that if you're quoting something someone said it is allowed to be done literary. From the point of view it would actually be changing someone's words if you do. And I thought it is allowed to use expressions since the literal meaning doesn't matter no more, only the symbolic value. My posts so far haven't been edited, so I considered it appropriate.

But sometimes I see the posts of other member are edited. For example, today I came across this post to later find it has been edited:

Originally Posted by Thecalliton

my dad has a saying
"wish in one hand, s***t in the other"
your gonna get the s***t long before your wish materializes... though granted my dad is a total jerk

EDITED: REMOVED EXPLETIVES.
PLEASE DO NOT USE FOUR LETTER WORDS,
OUR WEBSITE HAS HIGHER STANDARDS.

MODERATOR 3

Isn't this like using any other expression such as "When the s***t hits the fan"?

It sort of surprises me that this word is considered offensive/vulgar/etc, when I see the word "damn(ed)" not removed or edited. When translated to Dutch it is a rather offensive word. Since you are wishing the other or the subject to be cursed, it makes it the best "curseword" of them all . Could it be that there is another standard of severity of the word in English culture (???). There's no dictionary that explains me that Don't get me wrong; I'm not asking to ban it. It's just that I seem to be missing something here and I can't put my finger on what it is...

Thank you in advance for replying!

[big916]

i'm not a mod RR, but i do know the english language and american culture. in your examples the point can be understood with synonyms of that slang word that are not considered as offensive. poop would be one example that could replace it. acceptance all depends on what one is use to. i think when i was growing up they couldn't say ass on tv. they were even more strict in my parents generation, but were much more creative in what they said since they couldn't be vulgar. i have watched the BBC and they don't bleep out the word shit on the shows i have watched. so it all depends on culture and what the national regulator wants to do. we also don't bleep out damn but do bleep out saying the Lord's name is vain when putting God before saying damn. one channel FX is a little more lenient like the BBC in censoring.

to your question about quoting someone that says an expletive; i can't answer for the mods, but unless the word is used in an educational discussion than it may be considered just as offensive to quote it. an example would be talking about black history and using the n word. one saying it to not sugar coat what was said is not offensive compared to a rapper saying it in a music video.

also to the mods - isn't there an ability to pre-sensor words in the back office? so if someone says the f word you could automatically make it change to f**k for example.

[pcp71]

there are settings within the constructs of vBulletin (the forum hosting co.) where you can set certain words as innapropriate and the forum will automatically replace them with a designate word, such as in the example you have shown.

I used to be on another adult forum a couple of years ago and the words "kid" or "child" were automatically blocked out, such that if you typed "childhood" it came out "*****hood"

These are done within the control panel and can be set as the mods see fit. However as this site is geared towards adults, you would think a few of these words might be left untouched, like the aforementioned reference to feces

[dancingdoc2]

At least a dozen years ago or more, one of the hospital TV shows had a week's worth of teasers saying that there was going to be a ground breaking announcement, a first, on next week's program that was going to get passed by the censors. I think it was "Chicago Hope", although, it might have been another program. The night came, the plot of the show was what happened during the night shift in which nothing went right and among several problems, they lost a couple of patients. The doctors were assembled, later, in a conference room where they conducted a Morbidity and Mortality hearing in order to assess what went wrong with these two cases, etc. After much discussion and analysis, one of the doctors folded his hands behind his head, leaned back in his chair and simply announced: "well, sometimes s**t happens!" This was the first time such language was permitted on American television. Curious, as much as I am against bad language in conversation, this remark just seemed so appropriate--like what else could be said under the circumstances. The remark just fit after all the events that had occurred the previous shift.

I have mixed feelings about expletives. As in the quote, above, I do not see anything particularly egregious about using the s-word. On the other hand when someone frequently interjects one or more of these words into the flow of their general conversation, I become critical. I almost want to hand the person an unabridged English dictionary for them to find alternative words, in the hope they will take pride in the use of our language and find better words.

Of similar concern are all the reminders issued by members of the community with regard to usage such as "me and her", "your" instead of "you're", etc. We have to appreciate the fact that a good number of participants to this site live in foreign countries all over the globe, often trying to understand the English language that is not native to them.

What we should all be concerned about is how we appear to others, how we as a civil people present ourselves and come across to others. If we mutilate our language when speaking or writing to others, what does this say to others about we as a culture? At the very least, I believe each of us should do a bit of self editing and if the s- word or other is thought necessary, put in the **** instead of the letters. This demonstrates more class and everyone will get the message.

-doc

[Pierzeddick]

In most cases you would have a much better success ratio by holding the dictionary against their ear and striking it with a large sledgehammer. While this will not drive the knowledge contained in that book directly into the subjects brain, it will powerfully motivate most individuals, in a surprisingly short span of time, to stop their displays of foolishness and/or stupidity. After a few judicious applications of treatment, they may actually begin to use the dictionary for it's intended purpose simply because if they are holding it, it probably won't be next to their head, and if they going to carry it around, they will open it sooner or later, usually as soon as you show them the hammer.

Unfortunately, the global war on cyber-stupidity is one that I fear we shall never win by conventional means, as stupidity is a deep and endless chasm that most people are too lazy to try to climb out of because the chairs are comfortable, they have their TIVO programmed the way they like it, and they can answer almost half the questions on "Are You Smarter Than A Fifth Grader?". I'm afraid it's time, pass out the dictionaries and the hammers, it's education time!