I'm dating someone I'm really into... I don't want to screw anything up when it comes time for her and I to have sex. What does a guy do after the sex is done?
Get out of bed, throw the condom out, and clean up right away? Is that tacky? Am I supposed to stay in bed longer cuddling before taking the condom off and cleaning up? What about the clear liquid that comes out little by little every once and a while for a little while after sex? Do I bring a tissue back into bed to clean that up?
Thanks in advance
Paue a moment to relax and enjoy first, then a handkerchief in your back pocket, a box of wet wipes in the car, or a small towel at the bedside is all that is required for tidiness afterwards. A quick wipe and grab with the towel, putting it and its contents aside, and then let the cuddling begin! She might also want to use the bathroom, which is your chance to do more extensive clean-ups.
So, if there are more.. clear secretions.. after the initial quick clean-up.. that's not considered messy? I should just wash the sheets the next day? Yes, I'm a bit of a clean/neat person. What if I'm at her place instead? I'd feel bad not cleaning up right away to avoid anything getting on her sheets but at the same time I don't want to come off as a clean-freak and ruin the moment, you know?
THanks for the response
It's just one of those things... sex is messy =\ lol
all these bodily fluids and secretions...yuck! hahaha
I usually do like EEK said... keep a towel handy. I usually go to the bathroom afterwards anyhow...not only to clean up...but I usually really have to pee.
My b/f and I have spooned later...and yeah he'll have "leaked" on my legs or where ever lol
Just gotta go w/ it!
Or he'll wipe up w/ a hand towel...then kind of just leave it on his crotch area to catch any drippies.