Me and my girlfriend are getting nervous about her being pregnant. We have protected sex everytime and never risk pregancy by having sex with no condom. About 2 weeks ago though, we were having sex (condom) and I came and as I pulled out, the condom slipped off and half of it was still in my gf. We pulled it out right away. Its still nervewrecking though because god-forbid a little sperm that made its way to the base of the condom splashed out when it slipped of my penis.
now, shes been complaining about her stomach bothering her, and theres some suspicion of her boobs growing. We can't take a pregancy test until the 12th because shes scheduled to get her period on the 17th.
any suggestions will be greatly appreciated. Thanks
Well, you can try one now and repeat it it on the 12th. It should (not a gauarantee though) show if it's going to be positive. Otherwise wait it out, her symptoms may be due to stress and possible PMS. Next time she needs to use a spermicide and you use a condom.
Pregnancy would not affect the breasts this soon. Stomach problems could be anything. You are beyond the time limit for the usual morning after pill - if a pregnancy is established, it would not be dislodged.
Running the calendar backwards, she would not have been in a prime period of fertility but in teen women, this is a crapshoot.
Your choices are mifepristone, abortion (chemical or d&c) or have the baby. Until she misses a period, no action is indicated. If her period is late, see a doctor and investigate your alternatives at that time.
whats mifepristone?
I was wearing a spermicidal trojan condom. it slipped off afte ri came and pulled out of her
the amount applied to the condom isnt really that enough
[quote=Kelseyrose;189872]whats mifepristone?[/quote]
It's a medication which taken orally causes a termination of a pregnancy. It can only be used up to approximately 10 weeks into a pregnancy.
"What is mifepristone?" I hbelieve you are sitting at a computer. Do a search of this Board and of the web. Why do people want to do nothing for themselves but have others hand everything to them?
The reason why you left the condom inside of her was you were not also using lubrication with it. All condoms must be greased up before use and re-greased during periods of extended play. Change condoms after each male ejaculation.
If the ejacualte stayed inside the condom, the chances of her being pregnant are slim. However - why isn't she using BCPs? Why are you letting her get away with avoiding her responsibilities in this matter?
If you are going to indugle in adult fun - you must be adult about it.
any brand of lube u suggest using?
[QUOTE=Brandye;189933]"What is mifepristone?" Why do people want to do nothing for themselves but have others hand everything to them?[/QUOTE]
Because they're irresponsible and it's easier than doing it yourself.
[QUOTE=Mickeyd;189945]any brand of lube u suggest using?[/QUOTE]
Ha. He does it again!
[quote=Mickeyd;189945]any brand of lube u suggest using?[/quote]
Anyone which contains a spermicide.
Lubricant usually does not contain a spermacide. Not what lubricant is for.
But if you doubt her, find some that does have a spermacide in it.
Goto your local pharmacy. They should have a reasonable amount of condoms, lubes, spermicides / etc that you can use.
I'd rather be embarrased and buy a bunch of Contraceptive goods than be embarrased with a kid. Besides, Contraceptives are cheaper than the average 400k+ cost of raising kids these days :p
Btw, Spermicidal lubes seemed to have dropped off the market. Problem was people that used a lot of lube were having problems with irritation due to overexposure to nonoxynol 9. Add to that after it was disproved that nonoxynol 9 had anti-HIV effects and that it actually raised the risk of contracting disease (due to the irritation), the Sperm-lubes dropped out of the market it seems.
[QUOTE=-wittyphrasehere-;189948]Because they're irresponsible and it's easier than doing it yourself.[/QUOTE]
Actually, I might have been somewhat wrong on this one.
I guess people have this sense that since they're coming to a decent, 'professional' forum, they think that they'll be helped and serviced personally from helpful people. Like going to a customer service desk.
Maybe that's a problem with society. We have a supply system that generally tailors and babys the consumers so that they get this expectation that live in general will be like that.
You shouldnt worry too much. I've had a condom fall off my boyfriend as he pulled out and be completely in me and him have to get it out. If you're so worried, take birth control and mixed with the condom, the rish is so small you can breathe easy.
ummm... i was pregnant and i had signs 2wks later... "morning sickness" throwin up, sore boobs, headaches, peein alot....i thought i just had the flu but foud out 2months later i was pregnant so test now and test again in a couple of wks kk...gd luck....
If she does turn out to be pregnant, there is always the option of an abortion or adoption.