Hello. I'm new to sex all around, and I was wondering what are the possibilities of my g/f getting pregnant from some pre ejaculate getting in or around her vagina. She said that her period was supposed to be this week, but it was last week instead, and that she wasn't on the pill this week. (I think) Any help would be greatly appreciated. I hope that it's not possible too much. O yea, and how long does sperm live in the vagina? Thanks.
Wed, 12/10/2003 - 17:11
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Possibilities
Yea. It's not that we didn't use protection that time.. we did. It's just that b4, during the foreplay, we got a little too close and my penis touched her vagina, and i have a lot of precum, and some got on it. I don't think it got in.... hopefully not. But, we think it might just be paranoia causing the symptoms b/c she said that last time she was pregnant, she had other signs, but she hasn't had them yet... so that's always a plus. I'm making myself sick over this whole prediciment, which is not good... heh. Thanks for the help and all, and I'll keep y'all posted on everything.
True about the holidays. She said that she could get a pregnancy test this weekend, but she doesn't think it will give the correct results. I'm praying to god that her period does come on time in 2 weeks. When the pre-ejaculate got on her, she had just ended her period the day b4, so hopefully that can mean something good. Thanks.
well most likely, since she just came off her period, the odds of her getting pregnant then are fairly slim.
most women ovulate around 11 to 14 days after they start their period. but some can ovulate DURING their period. it just depends on your cycle period...but since she's on the pill, her cycle is much more controlled.
it could also be paranoia.
i had unprotected sex myself a few days off my period and while i'm pretty sure i'm not pregnant the thought is still with me (especially since i haven't had my period yet) and i think that's what's causing me to eat more cause it's stressing me out a bit and since i'm stressed more, i'm tired. i also seem to be a bit more bloated than normal...but i think that's just cause i've eaten way too much cheese in the past couple of weeks and i'm allergic to cheese. it makes me bloat badly and gives me gas. lol.
i have a friend in the same predicament. neither of our guys actually came in us, but there's the whole precum thing...and while the chances are fairly slim, it's still there.
i can however say that i have learned my lesson from this and i will glue a condom to his dick if i have to. lol.
so yea, next time, just use protection.
if you aren't able to go to the store and get some, you can order some online....and they come in descrete packages so if someone else lives with you that doesn't know you're sexually active, they won't know what's in the package.
i did that myself and it saved me the trouble of having to try to hide the box when i got home from the store.
yes, those are signs of pregnancy. BUT there are many other things that can lead to those symptoms. women can have a hormonal imbalance at any given time and if we lack such things as iron, it can mess with it a bit more. if we stress out about stuff, our hormones can go out of whack. and if our hormones are out of whack we get tired easily and we eat a bit more.
women can have signs of pregnancy when there's a zero chance of us actually getting pregnant. hormones are a bitch to put it plain and simple.
if you want, you can have her take an early pregnancy test. or you could just wait to see if her next period comes.
i will state however that it is also the holidays and people gain weight during the holidays and eat more.
Ok. Thanks. I just talked to her more about it, and well I'm really freaking out right now. She told me today that she has been hungry n tired lately and she gained a little weight. Now, on schedule her period should come in 2 weeks. Are those symptoms listed about bad? Please help me.. I'm freaking out. I don't want her to have another kid. She'd have to run away if she did. :*(
Hey Confoozeled
Sounds like a bit of a slippery situation
As for getting pregnant, I can't quote you any stats, but there is still a possible chance even from pre-ejaculate because it does contain some sperm. And the pull-out method is not a well established form of birth control for this reason. Regardless of when her period was, having a period does not necessarily stop one from getting pregnant. IT is far less likely due to timing and the downward flow. But again, there is always that chance. Sperm can live for up to five days inside the vagina.
My suggestion would be to not worry to much about it right now because the chances are so slim, but I would recommend using protection the next time. Protection is not only against a pregnancy, but also for the safety of the two of you. ALthough it often seems like a great idea to have unprotected sex with someone you really love, if you are young and new to sex, chances are that she will not be your last love and lover and it is always a good idea to use condoms for protection as a pattern.
As for her pill. I don't know what she means by she isn't on it this week. Most likely she is on a 21 day pill cycle where she takes pills 21 days, doesn't for a week, and then starts again. All pill cycles are the same, however some pills come in 28 packs with 7 sugar pills to help the person not to forget to start up the treatment again. IF this is the case, there is no different as to which part of the cycle she is in with pregnancy risk.
Hope this helps,
Let us know if there is anything else you need or want to know.