ive just recently started having sex and i found that what feels best is when i put one leg on his shoulder while he's on top. When i put both legs on his shoulders i feel as if i need to pee. Is this normal and if it is, is there any way to stop that feeling? 
Sat, 06/21/2003 - 02:19
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positions not to pee
Probably not
well when i do that position with my girlfriend (legs together and in the air) i try not to pull out of her because air get into her resulting in a queef. try this postion.... lye on your back in missionary but put your knees together pointing upward then while your legs are together lay then on either side of you...sorry ive never really typed out positons B4...hope this helps.... = )
Positions in which the penis digs into the urinary tract can cause the feeling of needing to pee. The best you can do may be to find a new favorite position. It may also help to empty your bladder before sex.
On the other hand, women who experience female ejaculation claim that a feeling similar to the need to urinate precedes it. This may be what is happening to you. Please don't take my word for it, though--I do not want to be held responsible if you "ejaculate" and it turns out you did just have to pee.
a friend of mine loves golden showers he gets of on it turns me off the thought
[QUOTE=Quote (girlygirl @ June 21 2003,16:53)] It may also help to empty your bladder before sex.[/QUOTE]
That's what i was thinking. If you have sex with a full bladder or after you've drunk a whole cup, it could put pressure on the bladder msucles.
I agree with girlygirl in that your body might want to ejaculate. I would suggest that you "go with the flow" one of these times. The worst thing that could happed is that you could actually pee, but that's outweighed greatly by the chance that you could ejaculate.
do not just "go with the flow"! first masterbate and rub that fleshy part of your vaginal wall towards your belly button, when u feel u need to pee, let it go and see if it is ejacualtion, if not, don't do that position with your partner.
[QUOTE=Quote (girlygirl @ June 21 2003,16:53)]On the other hand, women who experience female ejaculation claim that a feeling similar to the need to urinate precedes it. This may be what is happening to you. Please don't take my word for it, though--I do not want to be held responsible if you "ejaculate" and it turns out you did just have to pee.[/QUOTE]
And in my experiences, if you let your man know what's up and that its not pee...they find it very sexy!
As a woman capable of doing this, I can tell you that you are correct. It does start out as a feeling of needing to pee. I feel it more so during the position you described than any other. When I first started experiencing this, I just thought I needed to go to the bathroom prior to having sex, but it wouldn't go away even if I did...so I tried holding it in. But that's not it! I found out on my own (not w/ my b/f ) that it was not pee. Maybe that is what you should do. Experiment on your own to see what happens. If you can ejaculate, you are lucky...it is a very wonderful feeling that supposedly not all women experience.