Me and my girlfriend have been together for about six months. Its an amazing amazing relationship. we really love each other and the sex is great and frequent. The only problem is that when she's on top, I can go forever it's not a problem, but when I am on top I have very little control. It's not a big issue seeing as were both very satisfied and she can orgasm almost every time as long as she is on top first and I finish her off, but I'd like to have more control. Does anyone have any suggetions, theyd be greatly appreciated!!
Mon, 02/12/2007 - 07:13
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position problems
Tough ONE:confused:
It seems that when she is on top she is rubbing you totally different to when you are on top causing more stimulation for you.
The other thing is or can be mental when you in control you are more aroused than when she is in control
Each of us has different positions that work well. Some men are exactly the opposite of you. An orgasm is the release of tension that is built up in muscles all over the body. When you are on bottom, the tension builds slowly and you are apparently very relaxed. When on top, you are supporting yourself and tensing everything faster. Ergo, the tension gets to a point that is set off more easily.
I'd take it slow if I were you. I have a bit trouble controlling myself when I'm on top. Just pull it out, calm down and finger her a bit. Exciting position though isn't it?!
i let her do her thing on tp first and its great but i know my turn is next which is what ever i want. read between the lines and figure that out and you'll be ok.