I have been with my man for a few months now.The sex is great but we have a few problems when using certain positions.My man has a congenital bone condition that causes him to experience severe pain in his back,neck,hips and knees.Apparently his mother had a Calcium deficiency whilst he was developing in her womb,and his bones did not develop fully.He has also been injured in a serious work accident and whilst riding his motorcycle in the past.
I have been looking at the sex positions on here and trying to compensate in order to make him more comfortable and able enjoy our sex more.He is always wanting to please me and I want to do something for him,as it works both ways.I just don't know what positions would be best suited to give him maximum pleasure.Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated please.
Thanks EEk,will try those positions
Yes EEK he can do these things,but he is restricted when the pain kicks in.When he is randy and raring to go that's when I have to be on my guard.Not that I particularly want to be of course.
Him standing at the edge of the bed is possible with you lying on your back. (This assumes the height of the bed from the floor is appropriate.) Him lying on his side, you on your back with legs draped over him at right angles to him. These are 'low impact' positions for most men - those that put less strain on an already compromised body. Kneeling between your legs (while also sitting upright) and just doing a rocking motion of his hips is perfect for G-Spot caressing with his penis. This position however can cramp his legs so use with caution.
A hot tub for resting in during his refactory period is an excellent idea.
Okay - you didn't give us enough info.
Can he stand for 30 minutes?
Can he kneel for 30 minutes?
Can he lie on his side for 30 minutes?
Also, please understand that when the blood boils with lust and the endorphins kick-in - pain becomes a non-issue.
What positions does he find comfortable? My guess is that the two of you will have to check out several of the animated positions and try those he thinks may be kind to him. To suggest this, that, or, the other is of no real value.
If he finds the Woman Superior comfortable because reclining on his back places no strain then use this and evaluate it a few times.
If he finds reclining on his side facing you on your side then this also should be evaluated.
My guess is that the 69 with him on top will not be as comfortable as the 69 with him on the bottom.
So, get together, click on the site's Home Page and go thru the illustrations and check out any he believes may be easier on him.