Oh yeh....it's burning alright!!! Thanks!!

Congrats bewitching! Keep the fire buring! WOOF!

Thanks, Oberon! You're a champ xx

Hey Bewitching! Glad you came back to let us know how things went. I think it's great that your weekend was so special- and FUN!

<===== likes porn & is a girl--i am strickly dickly
but, watching a guy hump a chick--just doesnt really do anything for me--(well not usually)..i prefer seeing girl action--i am not too sure WHY--but i guarentee that im 100% for dick

i usually only watch it at a certain persons house--and lol he has this crap that was his uncles & theres stuff from the 70's through early 90's id say...bad "acting" (if you wanna call it that), big hair, bushs, ugly people..the list goes on & on..i just prefer 2 see straight f**king--none of the other yuck they throw into them..

unfortunately w/the yucky porn my friend has--we end up making fun of the pornos...(thats just funny in itself)..but it does turn me & my partner on if we watch it together...

It is definatly a turn on when a girl wants to watch porn, it also is a learning experience learning new positions and just hearing the sounds as you pleasure one another is excellent

Hey Guys! Guess what?  now i can officially contribute to this post.

WELL, what a great f*^king easter weekend i just had!!!

I asked my man about watching a porn when we went away, straight out, no strings attached.  What can i say? He's a male, and you guys, as per usual, were correct!

We got the porn and it was fun! No embarrassment or nervousness about it.  I think my man now thinks i'm an even better woman    I have to say however, men in porn really dont get me off.  I am no where close to being lesbian, but this time round, it were the chicks gettin' it on that rocked my boat.  My man didn't wanna watch the porn for long though.  His excuse was that he didn't need porn and i turn him on way more than any of the porn ever will.  I'll leave that for me to decide!  I'm glad we had a great weekend, and i only have you guys to thank for backing me up and allowing me to become more confident with myself and my decision.  Love ya's all!  

well to answer thw question I do like watching porn though I never started watching it until I meant my boyfriend who loves to watch them. It was a little akward at first but once you see one you'll love watching them and won't stop watching them. When your having sex, watching porn just makes an orgasm so much better . It helps the guy out as well it pleases both partners.

The first time I watched porn was when I was dating my bf, he had a couple of videos hidden that I found, and one day, I decided to watch them, one of them was all females, I prefer lesbian pornos, most of the men in pornos are old, and or overweight, not much of a turn on. I actually enjoyed watching porno more then my boyfriend, I remember one time he got upset, becuase I liked to watch a porno before we would get intimate. So we didn't watch any for quite some time, and then we started renting them off the internet, I really liked doing that, it was nice being able to watch something different, instead of the same videos all the time.

Thanks so much for your advice, guys!  It is so greatly appreciated.

I'm a bit nervous, but i'm sure i can get in the right mind set when it happens.  You guys are legends!

And rawbob, thanks for your comment at the end of your post, you're so sweet I feel that i'm the luckiest woman in the world just to have my man (ok, i'm getting all soppy now, let the love bird spread her wings!)

thank you everyone!

I agree with Oberon......i dont' think he'll protest THAT much!

Now..as for HOW to get to the issues of porno and masturbation..well....here are a few ideas:
1) Go to your local video store or adult bookstore and look for videos that you think you'll like. The wrappers on each video are just snipits of what's inside (oral, anal, fantasy, etc)....my suggestion is to get 3 or 4 so if one is really bad, you have back up.

2) Rent or buy a video on MASTURBATION! If you're afraid to ask him about watching and being watched masturbating...rent a video that show all the cool ways people have come up with doing it..plus most of those have couple-scenes for mutual masturbation! Sometimes a hand-job is hot as hell!

Have fun, just surprise him with the pornos when u get to where you're going...say "Hmmm...How about something to hellp set the mood"......go to your bag and pull out a video! (if you can, preview each to find the one u like most).....and then watch his mouth hit the floor when he sees u put in a porno!

Have fun!

ps: He's a lucky guy!

hey guys and gals,

great topic! im lovin' it! im so sorry, but i'm taking a turn in this topic to get some advice of my own.

i have only ever watched porn once, and it was when i was about 8 years old and my friend at the time found it and being as curious as we were, we watched it.  i couldn't believe it, i got off on it straight away!

I've never really protested against porn to my man, but i've never said i've liked it either.  I think he feels that i just dont like it.

How can i suggest to him for us to rent a porn video? We're planning a hot weekend away over easter and i think it would be perfect! I'd be a bit nerve racking (probably for both of us) at first, because i wont know how to react in front of him, so if there's any tips on 'what goes on', it'd be great! also, i want to do things like touch myself in front of him, but he is rather insecure and is embarrassed about the whole idea of masterbating in front of each other. any tips on that also?

Thanks guys!  

I would think that asking a guy if he would like to watch porn with you, would be like asking a duck if it would like to swim...lol.

But if you are nervous, just say you "saw something" or "heard something" and wondered what it might be like. Suggest that you "try it out" during your hot weekend. I'm betting he goes for it. Good Luck- but I doubt you'll need it.

oh yes, amateur porn is the best.

i also have this weird attraction to like hidden camera or security camera sex caught on tape. something like an elevator or whatnot.
it's just a weird turn on for me. lol.

Like "oberon" I am more into the amature porn then the boring professional porn. It's more exciting when people like US are having sex. My gf does not like porn, but I do talk some girls (messages) that love porn and watch internet porn all the time to masturbate to. One girl in particular enjoys reading erotic stories more then watching actual porn movies. I find soft core erotic movies are more sexual then the hardcore repetitive pounding pornos.

Okay, I'll add my two cents. I like the amateur stuff or older porn movies. I like people who look like real people. And I prefer natural sound as opposed to that awful "porn" music.

And yes, I've had porn on during sex. But with really good sex you don't see much of the movie....lol. But I have to admit there were times I was glad there was something else to focus on....lol.

Hey, I'm a guy and I find if I had a girlfriend and I knew she watched porn and liked it, it would be a turn on for me LoL

I love including porno with my lovemaking sessions. Not everytime, but for sure it gets things motivated in the right direction - thats for sure.

I do know my taste in porn has changed. I now MUCH prefer the more amateur style porn. I have exhcanged home videos with folks from across teh country, and find those INCREIDIBLY erotic. Real people, no scripts, no perfect bodies...just folks being themselves on cam! YEUP....l love it!

If i do rent porn, it's always of an amateur style.....no scripts or storyline...i mean.....watching porn for the story is like saying you read playboy for the articles! hahahaha

I'm not a girl so I won't clutter up your topic with a response about MY porn preferences.  I just wanted to say:

                     GIRL POWER!!!

I watch them. My guy knows I watch them but we've never watched them together or anything.
But yea, I watch them, I enjoy them, and yup, they can get me hot and horny too.

yeah sometimes id rather watch them alone than w/ my b/f.
we've only done that a few times and each time i was just too shy and embarrassed.. you know?