my and my fiance are willing to experiment and we want to go to a sex shop and get some toys im not shure what all we are going to get and i am pretty much willing to try almost any thign out there.
so is there and tips for me and my fiance as beginers we should try before we go all hardcore?
any suggestions would be nice maybe a personal review by the way im a guy and my fiance as a girl.
thanks
Take a look at the first thread in this forum for many sex toy reviews.
i think instead of being unsure, dont go straight into a sex shop you should look online at websites(shops) to give you a good understanding of what is out there, im recently married and my wife is pregnant and i just purchased sum fun cheques that she can cash in for anything like oral, being tied up. Its called www.wildsecrets.com.au and theres toys for him/her allsorts. hope you find it as useful as i did!!
Invest in a good vibrator, not a toy.
see: www.goodvibes.com
This is an excellent store in San Francisco.
Consider the Wahl model with interchangeable heads or one of the large units with a softball like head. These can be used for every inch of a person's body, not just the genitals.
As for dildos, do not get anything too large. I do not recommend cock rings. As Brandye has often stated, her favorite toy is a long necked glass bottle. You do not have to go to a store to find something to have fun with. Look around the house.
[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;152385]As Brandye has often stated, her favorite toy is a long necked glass bottle. You do not have to go to a store to find something to have fun with. Look around the house.[/QUOTE]
If there's an asian mall nearby, you might want to look into some [URL=http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ramune]ramune. ;)
This tip is courtesy of my pervy ex-girlfriend and her pervy sister. :D
I would suggest looking at a online sex shop to get an idea about what is our there, however most Adult shop owners don't seem to want to put alot of products on their sites, personally i don't understand this, but their loss our gain, even if you are in another state or country, find a store that has a excellent list of toys and sit down with your partner and go through them all.
Then when you found something you like, goto a local store (or buy from the online store). Also don't be scared to ask questions, most of the owners of the stores understand that not everyone is a expert. In fact you will find they are too happy help you with a product.
My opinion is start off "small" but not "cheap". Don't be taken in by the photos of the girls on the cover of the box having a good time, only to open it and find a piece of junk. Be assured that it wasn't THAT product that got them in the mood!
Think it through. Toys are expensive. My wife loves just a "standard" vibrator, and perhaps a real small one for the clit. Any "lifelike" vibrators, (cyberskin...) tend to look and feel real, but absorb the vibrations. So those are (in my opinion) good for penetration but not vibrations.
For me, I have a cyberskin "vagina". It was odd using it at first, but feels REAL good once you learn how to use "her". Most male toys looked bulky and stupid to me. Mine is just a cyberskin sheath, (well, there is a little more to it than that, but my description is just for understanding.), and is real nice!
Go into this with the attitude that mosts fishing lures are for the fisherman. NOT the fish! Same with adult toys. Most look inviting, but think it through and if you can, get someone in the store to assist you. I was a bit timid when I got my toy, didn't know what to get. The female, (and great looking!) store clerk assisted me, (that was a bit odd to me too,), but she was real understanding and helpful.
Forgot to add, some areas have CLASSY adult stores. There are several in Ft. Lauderdale. MOST adult stores (in my opionion) are trashy. I would avoid those if possible.
Internet is good, and if it is all you have, (as where I live now), perhaps we should kick around a few "name brands" that have worked out.
[QUOTE=tbryson2;154088]My opinion is start off "small" but not "cheap". Don't be taken in by the photos of the girls on the cover of the box having a good time, only to open it and find a piece of junk. Be assured that it wasn't THAT product that got them in the mood!
Think it through. Toys are expensive. My wife loves just a "standard" vibrator, and perhaps a real small one for the clit. Any "lifelike" vibrators, (cyberskin...) tend to look and feel real, but absorb the vibrations. So those are (in my opinion) good for penetration but not vibrations.
For me, I have a cyberskin "vagina". It was odd using it at first, but feels REAL good once you learn how to use "her". Most male toys looked bulky and stupid to me. Mine is just a cyberskin sheath, (well, there is a little more to it than that, but my description is just for understanding.), and is real nice!
Go into this with the attitude that mosts fishing lures are for the fisherman. NOT the fish! Same with adult toys. Most look inviting, but think it through and if you can, get someone in the store to assist you. I was a bit timid when I got my toy, didn't know what to get. The female, (and great looking!) store clerk assisted me, (that was a bit odd to me too,), but she was real understanding and helpful.[/QUOTE]
But also keep in mind that stores that are physical (non Internet based) can charge as much as they want, infact some products we sell, i have seen in some stores for 4 - 5 times the price. Just because it is dear, dosnt mean that it is any better then the rest. I would suggest compare prices, most stores will have the same brands and items, compare the most popular toys and find a store that isnt too dear and then pick the Pearl Bird or Vibrator that you want....
"Delights" has an excellent comment. :D
I would suggest you first to decide what are you up to. Would you like to add anal play, or may be some clitoral stimulation for her? This will help you to decide what product do you actually need. For anal play try some butt plugs (vibrating or non-vibrating). For clitoral stimulation try some vibrating stimulator like "Butterfly " ( http://www.xtoysusa.com/5776xusxa.htm ) or vibrating cock rings. You can also try some forplay things like body painting kits, massage, or dirty game (check Fun for Two section at http://www.nyrussianpages.com/Toys/two.asp ). Great idea is to look at some online stores before going to the actual store, they might have better prices as well as good product descriptions and reviews.
Also keep in mind with Anal play, is that alot of women need to work up to the but plugs, anal beads and alike are a excellent "starting point". If you just go banging your missess with a anal plug she will be very very sore and won't enjoy it.