Ok so here is some advice.

First don’t force her into anything, you have got to get her to the point where she feels comfortable and wants it. Also if you haven’t been dating long she just might want to wait. Take everything slow and talk to her about it all.

First the tits, if you get her tits out you can lick and suck LIGHTLY on the nipple. Also if you get one wet after sucking on it, blow some cool air on it gently. You can also LIGHTLY pinch or roll the nipple around in your fingertips. Some like that because the nipples of a woman are very sensitive. Everything done on women is done carefully and lightly… they are fragile!

Now to your dick, if she doesn’t want to suck it or play with it not in your pants then she won’t want to and you can’t make her. Ask her if you can play with her tits while you jack off or if she will kiss you while you jack off on the mouth or the neck, the ear does it for me.

Now to her crotch, again don’t force anything. Maybe while kissing her rub on her leg some and move it closer to her vagina. If she is into the making out then when your hand gets there it should be warm, and just rub it slowly and see if she gets worked up. Again TAKE EVERYTHING SLOW! If she is wearing a skirt and your rubbing on her panties then see if she is getting wet and then try to pull the panties to the side or down and just rub her vagina, don’t stick your fingers in yet, until she feels ready. But you could rub on her clit and then just her body language.

This should get you started… Women, what do you think about my advice?

> I'm in high school and have dated a little but haven't done a lot yet even though my current girlfriend and I want to. We're both about 18.

Begin with the information in the first post. It is great advice.

> Friday we went to a school thing and when it was over we went somewhere and made out in my truck only this time she was wearing a top that could easily be pulled down.

Hmmm...I wonder what was on her mind when she was dressing for your date?

> I got to touch her boobs but don't know what I should be doing with them.

Making love is an art as well as it is a science. When the time is right, let your kisses and caresses begin and build yet all the while revisiting previous areas of the body.

The breasts are erogenous zones. http://en.mimi.hu/sexuality/erogenous_zone.html

As such they are best left for later in the game when a person is now very highly aroused. This does not mean that you cannot brush over one on your way to someplace else, however, do not linger and devote much attention to them until s/he is very turned on by the caresses that have been ongoing.

When it is time to involve the breasts, begin by perhaps cupping one from the outside of her clothing. Later, you might slip a finger down from the top inside her blouse or shirt and feeling them through her bra. Keep in mind all this is progressive and this causes anticipation and builds sexual arousal. It is poor form most of the time to just undress and grab hold and start fiddling.

If you are unfastening her top, then you can run your fingers over each breast as well as her upper and lower chest, moving in on them to give more attention as things heat up. Removing the bra is sometimes an awkward experience. Does he? Does she? How--where's the hook? If you try to unfasten it and fumble, she will probably step in and help you. On the other hand, she may be interested in moving right along and will undo it before you get to it. Whatever works. In keeping with building excitement, sexual tension, anticipation, etc., keep the bra in place albeit unfastened for a little while as you explore inside the cups. The idea is to build anticipation while at the same time getting her used to the new level of intimacy if she is new to all this.

As your fingers and lips roam and explore each breast, you will probably discover that one of her nipples is more reactive than the other. If so, then this is the one to devote more time and attention to. There are some other important considerations to know and understand, also.

First, the nipples really turn on and become reactive when a person has achieved a high level of arousal. This is why it is important to wait and not mess with them too much too early in the proceedings.

Second, lean when to touch and when not to. Some women receive great pleasure early on yet find touching and fondling her breasts just prior to or during an orgasm to be disruptive and distracting. Others welcome the continued and ongoing caresses, so learn what she likes.

Third, BE GENTLE. Pinching and twisting are no-nos. However, you might discover that she enjoys a gentle squeeze or a bit of a rotational tweak.

Fourth, different sensations will be felt with a dry finger and a wet finger. You can rub the side or front of a nipple and the areola either way.

Fifth, kisses can be applied dry, moist, or wet and slurpy. The latter leaves plenty of moisture behind to wet a finger.

Sixth, consider at times "grazing" over the surface of each using your lips, fingers, or palms in unison.

Seventh, do not use your nails unless you determine early on that she likes it. If you want to use your fingernail, place some material like the bedsheet between your finger and the nipple, then use the edge of your nail to rub the nipple.

Eighth, you can bounce a nipple between your fingers, using your fingers flat but touching each other, or, you can use the same bouncing action with fingers parted. Try fast and slow motions to see what works, when.

Ninth, if her breasts are small and lie flat against the chest when she reclines, you can place the palm of your hand over one and massage the nipple against the ribcage using a small circular motion and gentle pressure.

Tenth, as with all forms of caressing, keep other areas of her body involved at the same time you are doing things to those erogenous zones. You have two hands and a pair of lips, so keep one hand busy one place and the other roaming.

> I know the tits are suppse to do things to her but what? When I finger mine nothing happens which is why I'm wondering.

I wish I knew the answer to your first question. As for the second, place a layer of your T-shirt, pajama top, or bed sheet between your fingernail and nipple. Fiddle with one or the other only when you are very highly aroused. See if one is more reactive than the other and if so, devote more time and attention to this one.

> We've also been putting our hands between each other's legs but that doesn't seem to do anything when I rub or shake my hand there.

Are you sure? It may not if you are doing it too early and before she is very aroused. It may n ot if you are rubbing the wrong area. Why not ask her where to rub?

> Do I actually have to touch her there before somehthing happens?

Probably, unless she grants you pretty good access through her clothing and gives guidence.

> I've seen drawings of girls but how do I know when I am touching the right place? It's not like me because she can grab on through my pants or boxers and things happen.

Experience. And, watching her reactions to what you are doing. You can also ask her where to touch. Later, when you have been granted full access and can touch her directly, you will find the clitoris beneath the juncture of the inner labia. The easiest way to find it is to place one lip between your fingers and trace along it until you reach the junction. If you are slipping a finger down from the upper vulva, then you can find it pretty easily.

> Last night we got together for a little while and she made me cream myself inside my shorts which she got a big kick out of. I've tried to get her to touch my dick but she won't. When I try to put her hand inside or bring it out she stops me but she won't stop messing with it which confuses me.

I understand the confusion. What is happening is she is building confidence and becoming acquainted little by little with an increasing level of intimacy. She will want to touch your penis and scrotum in due time.

> She's played with me several times but this was the first time to cum mainly because before I wouldn't let myself go or I'd stop her but last night I just let myself go and the more I let go the more she got into it. So why won't she actually handle my dick do you think?

Asked and answered. Just give her time and encouragement rather than forcing the issue.

> I want to touch her bad but don't know how best to go about that. I mean she lets me put my hand between her legs and if she wears a dress I can rub against her panties so it's sorta the same thing she does to me. Do I wait for her to pull her panties down or do I do that?

Here, again, use the same approach as you have used elswhere. Start casual and then build the intensity and the familiarity. If she will let you rub her genitals through her panties, then at some point try slipping a finger inside from the waistband; or, by inserting a finger inside along the crotch and moving the material aside as noted in the other post.

The panties may or may not go down or off depending upon her level of comfort, sense of security, and other factors. Don't force the issue, yet at the same time see how far she will let you try.

> Then what? Keep in mind this is my truck I'm talking about so we have to do it sitting.

Sitting or semi-reclining, her private parts will be facing forward.

> Oh, and what about me, do you think I should just pull my cloths off and stop trying to put her hand inside my fly instead? I really want us to go to the next level after what happened last night.

I don't know. This is a dynamic that the two of you will have to work out. I think you will learn the answer soon enough if you try to pull your penis out through your fly after she has been fondling it a while. She will either stop you or not. If she stop you, it is a signal that she is not quite ready for this level of intimacy. If so, respect her position.

> Oh, yea, and I know we are a long ways from having sex but I think about it and want to put my fingers in her if I can. Is this a good idea or not? I am afraid if I push my fingers in her that I won't want to stop until it's my dick and I don't what that but I know that if you give a guy an inch he'll also try for a mile and I don't want to go so far I can't stop myself.

I belive you may have provided your own answer. Of course it is a good thing to insert a finger when done at the right time and when circumstances are right. Don't try to go way up inside; rather, concentrate on the outside and just inside the vaginal opening becuase this is where all the major nerve endings are.

> Would dry humping be a good when a couple doesn't want sex? HELP HELP HELP Sexy1 2B needs advice.

Yes, yet keep in mind that you may not be satisfied with that and this level of familiarity and intimacy may force one or the other of you into wanting intercourse before being ready for it. Better me thinks for the time being and immediate future to set your limit at fingering her, receiving a hand job, and giving each other oral stimulation. Keep the rest for much later.

I hope this is of help. Got questions?

As a girl I'll say...listen to the other two lol. Just imagining those things got me turned on... so ...listen to them.

Shes just trying to get comfortable/familiar, let her. If you push her too hard it could mean she gets too uncomfortable and ends it. Do experiment and test her limits. But if she says stop, stop.
Really nothing else to say since Cocksman and dancingdoc2 pretty much covered it. :)

--why dont u invite her over to your house? clean your room if its messy, make your bed, and invite her over. have both of you lay on your bed, and just talk ya know or if u have a tv watch some tv, or listen to the radio. the whole being in the car thing might make her uncomfortable. I know i wouldnt want to do anything in a car because i would feel like someone is going to see us.
But when im in his or my own room, i know that no one will. lock your door, or make sure people knock before they come in. while you laying down, kiss her cheek and her lips, make out if u want, kiss her neck. have one arm around her neck like behind her ya know, and then have the other one on her stomache, or her face like holding her. with that free hand if your not holding her face at the time, let it roam all over. if she is ticklish, kind of flirt with her and tickle her. slowliy move up to her breasts, over her shirt, and just rub them, i mean that wont do much, at least for me, but it will get her more comfortable with you touching her. then after a while put your hand up her shirt, but only near her stomach, and slowly work up to her breasts again.

--About her going down your pants, im sure she will eventually. let her know she can take her time, and she can when she feels the time is right. I know when my bf told me that, it helped.
-- let her build up her confidence, let her know how good it feels even when shes not even down ur pants.
-- and for the dry humping part. only do this if she is really into it, like shes really aroused and wont let u down her pants. This can be pleasuable for both of you. i personally dont mind it at all. ;) haha
-- basically go slowly, and learn to be more comfortable with eachother, get to know what each other likes, and talk talk talk.
good luck! peace~

Reading this sure brought back memories.......I had some very good times in my Chevrolet Z71. I had the hottest truck in the parking lot and the girls were lined up to ride in it!!! (thanks dad for the truck and all the women it brought me)......okay, i'm back, i had to call and thank him.......
I like the advice above. in the truck can be fun, make it that way. just don't let the cops bust you, it happened to me twice. nothing better than a spotlight on your naked butt in the air........memories of SCROGGIN