im 14. my girlfriend and i have been together for a little over 10 months. I want to please her but we both vowed no sex til marriage. I was wondering if theres any way to please her without touching or going below the waist. anythingg above is fine.
Sun, 09/10/2006 - 19:27
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Pleasure Without sex?


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when i rub/lick her nipples she moans and makes noises. is that good? can she have an orgasm from that or no?
moaning and making noises is generally a good sign that all is well with her and with what you are doing.
There seems to be a connection between the nipples and the genitals in many women, although I do not believe it is possible to have an orgasm strictly from playing with one or both nipples. What can and often does happen is that nipple play does greatly intensify the sensations caused by other forms of kissing and caressing. It is important to know and understand that the skin is the larges sex organ a person has. What Ryouko says about any gentle touching is right on the money. Kissing, grazing the lips and fingers over each other's skin will cause nice feelings to happen.
> I was wondering if theres any way to please her without touching or going below the waist.
There are all sorts of ways to please each other above the waist. This is what the terms "necking" and "petting" are all about. I've written a couple of posts on all this.
Here are some ideas to begin with:
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/pleasing_him/18244-increasing_my_confide...
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/new_sex/16534-very_clueless_many_questio...
Here is a three-part post with more on making out. Just change the pronouns to suit.
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/pleasing_him/17196-turning_him_on.html?h...
Here are a couple of excellent websites for teens:
For you--
http://members.optusnet.com.au/~au
For her--and for you--
http://www.scarleteen.com/
I believe the two of you should be commended for wanting to hold off on any foreplay and other things to do below the waist. It will be tough to hold onto that ideal when making out so part of your brain has to stay alert and in control or your hormones will win out and you'll wonder how "more" happened.
I hope this is of help. Got questions?
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> I'll suggest that during these times wearing panst or shorts with a belt to make it less convinient to try something
And, perhaps a Chastity belt for her?