ok I'm not sure if ths has been posted anywhere and sorry if it has, but,
when I first lost my virginity it did hurt, and I didn't get much pleasure from it, now we've done it a number of times and still I have no pleasure from it, is there something wrong with ME, is it a mental thing? or like.. has it got something to do with his size?? He's my first so I don't know what to think of "small" or "large"
Like, when he penetrates I can feel him inside me, but I get no pleasure from it??? please someone help, I'm feeling like a freak!!
Good luck, have fun, and be safe!
=) thanks for ur comments !! means a lot so now i sorta have an idea of what i need to do.. lol
Don't worry, you're not a freak.
As monie said, not every woman gets pleasure from vaginal sex. In fact, it's a lot less common to get pleasure from it than people would think.
Most girls get off on foreplay and oral. Most of us need clit stimulation, or we're just not gonna get anywhere.
More guys need to understand that as well. They think that just because they're getting off from the intercourse, the girl is too. Far from the case.
But as monie also said, as you discover more of yourself, you will learn what gives you pleasure and what doesn't, and what you can do to better the sex.
Alright, I'm gonna do my best here...
From what I know, not every woman gets pleasure from vaginal intercourse. I myself am one of the more lucky ones who does every single time. But, there are many who don't.
Now, it is possible that you two just have yet to find your "flow", I guess you could say. It takes a while sometimes to really know what feels good for yourself and for your partner. Maybe different positions will give you pleasure, while others won't. I'd say that you should try a few new things and give it some time. As you discover more about yourself and what gives you pleasure, you will be able to get pleasure from sex.