Ok ladies i was wondering is there ever a thing called to much pampering!!!!!!???? My gf is in university but when she has time and we cant have sex or play around or anything else i give her a foot/leg massage!!!! i know i am very good at massaging because my mother has trained me on massaging since i was young. No i dont mean in a CREEPY WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!. So i give her a massage when she askes also!!!! when i go over to her house, which i accross the street, i ger her a back rub while we are standing or laying on her couch!!!!!!!!!!!! i am always rubing her somewhere!!!!!!!! no pun intended:p!!!!! but seriously i pamper her alot with my hands and she loves my hands almost more than me ;). So do you think there can be too much pampering in a relationhip which has lasted 8 months?????? thanks ladies!!!!! i am kinda worried that over pampering might hurt are realtionship some how!!!
Tue, 04/03/2007 - 04:11
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Pleasing Your Girlfriend
No can not pamper us too much (just as long as you don't look like a fool catering to every little whim). Many of us appreciate it! And you should find she does the same for you in return!
Let me know if you become unattached!!
[QUOTE=Brandye;173145]Let me know if you become unattached!![/QUOTE]
lol the physical connection is a natural extension of the emotional one
I am cocky when i want to be so i am pretty sure i can keep her attracted to me brandye, i hope!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ok here is another question then, even though i pamper her all the time she does not really rturn the favour by massaging me she returns the favour by sex!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! is that a fair trade. also i am not a whimp and wont just bow down to her every wish and she knows that, i just randomly massage her and do it most of the time she askes, but there is usually nothing better to do and i really dont mind doing it because she has a beautiful body and her skin is soft!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Another Question, when i do things to pamper her does that make her more horny or more attracted to me????????????????? she is one of those women that will try to do everthing for another loved one but nothing for herself, yet another reason why i pamper her!!!!!!!!
Okay. First off, lay off the puncuation, bub. You only need a single '!' or '?' at a time.
Alrighty. To answer you about the fair trade... thats all up to you. Do you feel its a fair trade? I think it would be but i dont know the details. Plus, I like to massage my girl and ask for nothing in return. Cause Im nice like that I spose. So, really, anything at all should be more than enough of a trade.
The pampering I find DOES make her more horny... but only in certain areas... but, all girls are different. I know I sound like a broken record, but ask her if it turns her on. If you dont want to ask, just observe her closely. You two have been together long enough it seems, you should be able to tell if shes enjoying it just by looking at her.
hey look i don't think that thinking of it as a trade is wise making such quantistic measurements can demean a relationship in my opinion, you should be asking yourself, are we BOTH happy ? if yes then the time you spend on asking us such a question you should go and spend with your girlfriend.
thanks for the input it is appreciated!