Ok now when you finger a girl, is it good to put your finger(s) in her vagina and start off slow going in and out, and then while fingering her, stimulate the clit somehow?
Then for eating a girl out, do you wanna spread the pussy lips and basically lick up and down on the pussy and stimulate the clit once again with your tongue, or would you wanna stimulate the clit with your fingers if your not by the clit? And do you want to stick your tongue inside of the vagina at all or no?
like while your doing anything to your girl, do you wanna stimulate the clit and do whatever else at the same time if you wanna make her feel good?
Now im just asking a few questions so please can you people just answer me, and try to just correct me if i have it wrong or i should do something different, or do more.
I know you people will probably say "look around" or "go here or there" i just wanna know personally if i got this down good or not.
And if you reply to me, try not to make the answer like 10 paragraphs long, i just wanna know if i got the basics down...thats it
Thanx...
You ask for advice and then put limits on the advice you will accept. You do not have the basics down "good." Grow up and then ask.
There, that was one paragraphh. A short one.
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ok, there is no reason to be mean....he is just trying to make sure he is going to please his g/f the right way.
For the answer to your questions. I personally do not like my b/f to put his fingers inside of me or his tongue. But some girls like it, and if they do like it that is the correct way to do it.
When you consentrate on the clit be gentle, dont just like the clit, like it around the area and the clit. It is nice to play with the clit with your fingers while licking elsewhere but like I said, be gentle, dont put any pressure on it.
That is what I like, everyone is different, I hope I helped a little bit with your question.
Slim,
Buddy, you got it completely wrong... Pleasuring a person is like playin an instrument... It takes much more then hitting keys on a piano to make it sound good, as it takes more to perform orgasmic oral then go up and down.
For starters, most of the enjoyment that comes from an action, like lets say licking her clit, comes from the anticipation and the build up of getting to it. When pleasuring a woman, or anyone for that matter, you need to learn what they like, then build up to those things, then use them to build up to others.
What you are looking for is an easy answer to pleasing someone, and as much as you don't want to hear, and probably won't listen, you need put in your time. You can do this wisely by starting slow and learning as you go, or you can rush straight into having her ride your face when you don't know her vagina from her urethra...
Start slow, and fingering her right off the bat is not slow. Without spreading her lips, gently run your hand/fingers up down, in circles... its good to build up a repetoire of these techniques, remembering which ones work when.... as she gets hotter/wetter, you can start running a finger down her slit, up to and around, but not including her clit. Tease her a little, then give her a little tickle...
I hope you get the idea, and remember that learning this stuff now will make you better later, so take your time, communicate, and learn it right.
[QUOTE=Quote (slim jim32 @ June 09 2003,14:25)]And if you reply to me, try not to make the answer like 10 paragraphs long, i just wanna know if i got the basics down...thats it[/QUOTE]
No.
Poor guy just wanted some advice to ensure he would get some nookie by putting in a few quick licks and a poke...
Nah-uh, if she's a real woman, your quickie hobshots won't work. So to join everyone else, NOPE.
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