I really didn't know where to put this,here or in the bisexual section,but it is about pleasing a female so here goes.
I am a bisexual female in a loving relationship with a man,and he knows and accepts that I want to be with a woman.I have had these feelings for many years,since I was a teenager.But I kept them hidden till I realised that I just couldn't go on pretending to be straight when my desire to be with another female was so great.
I have met a woman who wants to begin a dom/sub relationship with me,she taking on the dominant role.I haven't been with a woman physically before,only in thought and fantasy,but I really want to please my mistress and show her that I am up to the challenge.
Any advice on how I can go about this.We have agreed on a safe word and she does not want any harm to come to me.She wants to take me to a club to have an orgy with other women.My mistress will handpick the women that she wants me to be with,and she wants to watch it all.This is a fantasy of mine,but I am scared that I will chicken out and disappoint her.
I'm a female and I know what I like,but I am really in the dark as to how I can please my lady,and still be submissive to her.
Tue, 10/11/2011 - 12:17
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Pleasing my mistress....
You have been posting about these desires for quite a while and I am glad that some action is taking place.
The majority of woman on woman activities are one on one and rather traditional - similar to the majority of heterosexual activity. Starting with an orgy or with dom-sub may not give you a real experience for knowing your own feeling. Simply going woman on woman will be a new, and perhaps, intense experience. Adding two additional variables may be confusing. Orgies, in themselves, are a "different" experience; sub-dom may or may not be your cup of tea.
It may be wiser for the two of you to have some personal action before adding too many new experiences in one try. You do not have to try overly hard to please her. Just being natural and following the flow of the experience is generally more than enough.