Some guys feel that pleasing a woman is pleasing to themselves. If your idea of him pleasing you is a way in which he can get satisfaction then that is all he needs. Try (if your up to it) telling him that you want to try new and exotic positions. Guaranteed that you will BOTH get the pleasure.

REJOICE! That is what you do. And then you return the favor.

haha amen Evil, take advantage of it while you can, because who knows how long it will be there.

Oh my god! I think almost every woman would want a man like that! He need to write a book. Of course you may feel a little guilty but try something like a 69 so you can please each other at the same time. But most of all, enjoy it cause you don't know how lucky you are!

Amen lol, as much as I love pleasing my girl, and I would all day if I could... I don't want to be a lonely man

All that matters to me when I'm with my girlfriend is that she is receiving pleasure, which in turn makes me feel the same.

I can't say why it's the case for your boyfriend, awesome, but in my case I think it comes down to the insecurities i've felt all my life, never knowing whether I would be able to satisfy a woman and constantly worried that I wouldn't be able to last the distance. Seeing and hearing the positive response to what we do together is the greatest turn-on I can imagine!

I agree that it is nice for him to want to please you and not be selfish...but also (I think Doc posted this in another thread) he should be open to letting you please him.
What if you exact same mindset was that pleasing him brought you more pleasure than actually receiving pleasure??
We all like that feeling of pleasing our partners and accomplishment of knowing that we made them orgasm...etc.
Pleasure should go both ways ;)

Receiving is great, but if she doesn't get off, I just can't enjoy myself.

I love giving, but if she wants to... sure :P

[QUOTE]Pleasing me, pleases him - It's weird... [/QUOTE]
OK, I'm guilty and feel no shame... but it does have it's hangups... :rolleyes:

I'm excited by my lovers excitement. If she is not in the mood, I have a hard time getting in the mood myself. If I'm really horny, I just handle my business myself rather than make her endure the deed. She doesn't seem to have a problem with it nor do I when she handles her business when I'm not in the mood. The majority of the time it works well for us.

The hangup is when she wants me to take her. She may be mentally aroused but not physically aroused. It's like she wants to catch up with me once we get going. Over the years I have grown to expect too little, a little too late from these situations. If she doesn't respond to foreplay, I'm not interested. Even when it comes to oral, I prefer to do her back if she does me. Although I must admit that most of the time I can't resist a good blow-job.

When it cums to intercourse her cumming triggers me to cum. Most times she cums easily with the right simulation or combination of simulation. Sometimes she has to help herself to cum so that we both can cum. Each time is different. A lot of times I can tell we are about to cum together and we do. In general it it does not please her, it does not please me... ;)

its a real big turn on for me, to pleasure girls

[QUOTE=awesome;186905]I don't know if it is me or what. He just likes pleasing me. And everytime I ask what he likes he says "I like pleasing you". SO what does that tell me? But than we were hanging out and a bunch of us went to the movies and I was rubbing his penis and he was like woah that was amazing. But he still says that he would rather pleasure me than me pleasure him. WHat do I do?[/QUOTE]

That is how I feel, I always seek to do what pleases my partner, and that is what turns me on the most. Also I like to delay my satisfaction as long as possible! So I seek out women who are compatable with me.

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