She can't get me to cum.

[RedRoses]

Off course it's ok to ask for assistance In fact: I received a lot assistance from my bf discovering the pleasures of my body I think the others are just trying to point out how it stays to "assistance". You certainly don't make it your partner's failure if orgasm is not achieved, iow: not responsible. Not saying anyone was trying to do that, just pointing out a slight risk

[dancingdoc2]

It seems strange that we are discussing all this, here, when two or more articles listed in the Index cover the matter in detail.

[teena22]

Why not try showing her how you do it? In that way she'll learn. And with oral sex how or in what do you want her to this for you? It's a matter of showing her how you do it.

[raunchy gal]

Yes it helps to guide her as to what you like,she's not a mindreader.Explain that although you feel that she is doing a good job you could help her to make it better for her as well as yourself.

[Brandye]

.... and now we encounter the echoes. SEE DANCINGDOC"s recommended articles and enough!

[Bushidokaizen]

I have this same problem and I masterbate almost every night.

I'm reducing it all together for now until the weekend when i see her and i hope this tactic works.