Where to cum

[jbs]

Hi guys! question: ive starting a new relationship and we're getting to the point we're gonna have sex. she's told me she's kinda kinky but we have had sex yet so i dont know any of her favs yet lol. so my question is where do you ladies like your man to cum? i don't want to do something totally inappropriate when the time comes so im looking for some feedback. thanks!

[dancingdoc2]

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To answer your question, it is an individual call. Key to successful relationships is communication and feedback. I suggest asking her or having a "what if" discussion before the fact. Talk about this as well as birth control and other likes or dislikes. Please read the articles in the Index on being ready for sex for more on all of this. Knowledge is empowering.

You will be safe ejaculating on her abdomen, any lower and there is a risk that the fluid will run between her legs and you do not want this.

I hope this is of help. Got questions?

[Brandye]

Did it ever occur to you that we women have an organ specifically designed to extract semen? In fact, the vagina has no other purpose. Do you think maybe that that is an appropriate place for the semen to generally end up?

[DirtDriver]

Maybe I have an issue or something, but there is no place I'd rather cum than in her vagina. I have a hard time doing it anywhere else, its not as satisfying. When she cums at the same time, I can feel her contractions and this just drives me to cum too. Of course, I'm married and we don't use protection anymore, but when we were dating we always used condoms and spermicide and I would cum inside of her then too. But I think you'd need to talk to her, because I dated a girl once who refused to let me cum inside of her, even with a condom and spermicide. I was fine with that, but at least she communicated that up front so I planned accordingly.

[dancingdoc2]

> ive starting a new relationship and we're getting to the point we're gonna have sex.

My reply, above, was based on what he said--"we're getting to the point..." not that they have arrived; therefore, since intercourse is not yet on the menu, I took his question to mean where instead of the vagina.

[jbs]

well that did occur to me brandye but i know that some women like it on their face and some hate that. my friend says his gf loves it on her boobs. im going to ask her but id still like to see what some of you guys say.

[dancingdoc2]

Begin by not offending. Shooting on a person's face the first time you become intimate with her seems to me to be highly inappropriate and lacking good manners. The same for having your ejaculate land on or around her breasts.

If you are not yet ready for intercourse, then let fly on her abdomen, thigh, or upper leg, yet far enough away from her vulva that it won't run down there on its own.

Later, after you have a history with this person, and you discuss what you like, dislike, and would like, then you can explore the other options.

[jbs]

Well i should point out that weve done sexual things before like me eating her out and her giving me blowjobs. but she's always swallowed my cum but hinted that when we start having sex soon she might like it elsewhere.

[Thonger]

Seeing as how she is used to giving you blowjobs, and you said she was kinky, I would just ask her if she minded if I came on her face and see what her reaction is. If she says "yuck", then you know that wasn't the right answer. Ask her if she would like you to cum on her breasts, or where she wanted it.

[whyyknott]

Where to cum is different for each person. My wife prefers that I cum in her vagina. Sometimes she has me cum on her stomach or just on the outside of her vullva. The first time she got me to cum was with some dry humping, so the mess was all mine to clean-up in my shorts.