first time anal play?

[me2010]

anyone enjoy having their ass played with while your partner is performing oral on you? guys and girls. whats the best way to start off? with a finger or a small toy? we have been reading it is something worth trying and it escalates the orgasm. any lube suggestions?

[nuttychick]

Hi and welcome to the forums. You will find the answers to your question in many threads..I suggest you do a search...... (I would give you some links but alas I am a blonde Kiwi and even tho Doc has told me how to do it I still can't lol).. Also Double posting is confusing so If you keep that in mind next time

Keep reading, and enjoy the Forums for which you will find many tips and tricks

[dancingdoc2]

Please read the FAQs, the Posting Guidelines section, and especially the Index, all found at the top of the main screen. Here is an article that discusses your questions and concerns.


"Playing Ball" and How To Tips for Prostate Massage
This is also an excellent tutorial for people interested in and concerned about the how-to of Anal stimulation as well as play.

I answered the question about lubricants as recently as a couple of days ago. Please read Brandye's and my replies.

[nuttychick]

Oh I am sorry I posted in wrong thread.

[Thonger]

Originally Posted by me2010

anyone enjoy having their ass played with while your partner is performing oral on you? guys and girls. whats the best way to start off? with a finger or a small toy? we have been reading it is something worth trying and it escalates the orgasm. any lube suggestions?

This is one of my favorite things in the world. I love having her play with my ass while she's sucking on my cock. As for what's best, I think that's personal. For me, I like a finger over a toy to start with. But if she has long fingernails, then a small toy would do just as well. Use lots of lube if you're new with this.

If you want the ultimate in pleasure, nothing beats the feel of her tongue licking your ass. I love the feel of this more than anything in the world. Maybe you can get her used to the idea by doing it to her first. When you're licking her pussy, give her ass some wet laps and see what her reaction is. If she likes it, then you have a good chance of getting it in return. Just keep yourself clean before sex and one day she might surprise you. Good luck.