Can't get him in while on top.

[musicbeat804]

My boyfriend and I have been having sex for over two months now. I have done the cowgirl position before with a previous boyfriend. When we did it, I didn't quite enjoy it because he kept slipping out. But I really want to be on top with my current boyfriend. The only problem is, is that I can't seem to get him in. No matter what I try. I'm always extremely wet and we still use lube. When he's erect, his penis curves upwards towards his navel. I've tried inserting him when I'm on top but it hurts him. Any tips or ideas?

[dancingdoc2]

Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums. I hope you enjoy participating. Please begin by familiarizing yourself with the FAQs, the Posting Guidelines section, and especially the Index, all found at the top of the main screen. The Index contains links to helpful informative insightful, as well as how-to articles that discuss the most common questions and concerns people ask about. If you click on the site's Home page you will find even more information including illustrated animated sexual positions.

I recommend the Woman Superior or Cowgirl position for first timers be it their first time ever, or with this partner because it places the woman in control. My first thought when reading your post was that you know where P and V are and can deftly bring the two together; however, I do understand about the angles involved. Have you tried leaning way forward and almost on top of his upper body so that there is less of an angular difference? What about other positions, do you have trouble with these? If not, see what the commonalities are between any and the Cowgirl. Maybe you can begin with one and switch around.

When you use lube, do you lube his penis? This is important. It makes a big difference if you are both slippery.

I hope this is of help. Got questions?

[musicbeat804]

I've looked at all the animations and the index. I've been to the site multiple times but today, I decided to sign up because I visit it so often (I apologize if I sound a bit snotty there). I have no problems with missionary or doggie style, those are the two positions we do most often. I always make sure to lube both of us and he loves it when I rub lube on him. I've tried leaning forward and inserting it at that angle but it still hurts him. He's always very erect when I try this. He has no problem with inserting when we're doing doggie or missionary.

Thank you

[Brandye]

Angles are very important. You may have to be leaning much farther forward than most diagrams. Very rigid erections can give problems in all female superior positions because they do not allow much tolerance. Guess you two need to practice.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Stop leaning forward and sit upright when 'mounting'.
Practice makes perfect!!!