sex after havin kids. am freakin

[curious84]

i have 2 kids. both were big babies and i had them natural.
i just split from my husband and am yet to have slept with anyone else cos i am freaking out.
i discussed it with my ex. and now im just more freaked out.
im so worried im gonna suck at it. im so worried im gonna be to loose. (they really were big babies) and i dont know what to do or anything to fix this issue.
any help would be appreciated.

[Brandye]

In 19th century Germany, the woman was packed with rabbit dung to make her tighten up. Not recommended. There is really nothing to be done unless there was damage that requires surgical repair.

You will likely be pleasantly surprised that everything will work just fine. And, if your body shapes allow it, you can accept him into you and then close your legs with his legs on the outside. This gives a bit of a squeeze and, as a bonus, assures that his penis will pass directly over your clitoris.

Many women have had many more bairn and can still turn in a good performance.

[EvilEvilKitten]

KEGELS - do your kegels
and then read and do The Program found elsewhere in this forum and there woldn't be a man who would not ABSOLUTELY ADORE YOU.

It isn't a question of loose or not - it is question of caring engh to be a good lover, which is something much more.