Can TOO MUCH be a TURN OFF?

[haleybaley764]

My b/f and I have been together for 8 years and our sex life has always been great.....at least 1-2 times per week. However....lately I have been wanting to have sex (whether oral or intercourse) ALL the time. I can't keep my hands off him....always wanting to touch him or kiss him or stroke him.....any time of the day. I even ask him to come in the shower with me so we can have sex then as well. During that time of the month I find anyway to please him.....this would not have been typical behavior a few months ago. Can too much become a turn off? I don't want him to get annoyed. Any advise please !!!!!

[Sekcboi85]

Has he complained yet? I would figure that most guys in long-term relationships complain that their woman doesn't have enough sex with them. So I doubt that your increase in sex-drive shouldn't be a problem.

There is a fool proof way of handling this situation though. Just talk to him about it. You have been together for 8 years so I would hope your communication is good enough that you can just bring it up and say, "Hey, does it bother you that I want to have sex all the time lately? I am feeling more sexual lately and I just wanted to make sure you are enjoying it too."

I don't know many guys that have complained about too much sex so I wouldn't worry about it too much.

[haleybaley764]

Actually....I did ask him this morning while we were getting things ready for Thanksgiving. There again I couldn't keep my hands off him...lol He did answer the way I thought he would...."Are you kidding me....absolutely not" I just wanted to get some input from someone other than the man that has been getting pleasured at least twice a day....not that I'm complaining Thanks for all your help....I do appreciate it.

[EvilEvilKitten]

You did the right thing - you asked HIM!

Always communicate.