Hard or Soft Nipples??

[GweMi]

When the weather is a bit colder, if the woman is getting aroused or even if the breasts are getting a bit of extra attention, the female nipples become harder and the whole breast seems to be more attractive.

But is this the case?
In most magazines and photographs, the woman's breasts are hard and perky.. But do men really prefer this? Is this how us women should be?

If the woman does get a bit hot, which does often occur during sexual intercourse, her breasts will relax and her nipples will become larger, fatter and softer..Is this a turn off guys??

If so, what should we do about it??
Are there any women out there who have any special tips to keep their breasts and nipples looking sexy and perky?

[Buck Naked]

There isn't anything about about my wife that could ever be a turn off.

[lnt1103]

I for one have never had my nipples get SOFTER during sexual play, no matter the temperature. Arousal always firms them.

[headhead]

In my experience, women whose nipples become hard and erect achieve orgasm more easily. At the same time, women whose nipples are persistently soft are more likely to be anorgasmic.

As a consequence, when I see a woman's nipples get hard, I know I can expect a big finish.

[Threads Of Fantasy]

I prefer harder nipples because it makes me feel like I am doing something right. If its soft though, I don't mind too much.

[wet_suit_one]

Why should women be anything other than as they are? Why would anyone believe that they need to look like the person depicted in the media? The media is a lie of sorts. We should all be aware of this.

[GweMi]

Originally Posted by wet_suit_one

Why would anyone believe that they need to look like the person depicted in the media?

wet_suit_one,, you have a very good point!
Eventhough we should not care about what is said in the media, I still feel that men are targeted more than women!
As many men still read playboy themed magazines, more than women do for men, I feel that men are expecting what they see rather than what they have at home!
Im sure that inside every honest man there is an opinion on the subject, and im sure that many women would like to hear it!

[EvilEvilKitten]

"Im sure that inside every honest man there is an opinion on the subject, and im sure that many women would like to hear it!"

Nope!

I don't care and thus far in messing around with a wide variety of men for more than 40 years I have never yet met a man who gave a damn about what my nipples were doing at any given moment because if we're naked and that close and both of us are saying yes, yes, YES! there are a lot more interesting things to think about.

The only thing to remember about nipples is that they become erect during orgasm. It is an involuntary reaction.

[Lovingallways69]

I have to say i like it all! hard nipples are just as beautiful as perky ones.

[Gibson52]

Hard erect nipples are a big turn on to me....you can add some splendor by rubbing some seductive smelling lotion only on your nipples, which will make you look so sexy!!!
When a man sees your breasts hardened, with slightly oily nipples, you will have his complete attention.