09-26-2009, 08:39 AM
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OxfordFox: Drop this Selfish Lout and kick him in the head on his way down.
"Well that's what a loving gf would do if her bf asked her to" or " why are you being so stupid about it i give you pleasure dont I why cant you do this one thing for me" Frankly, a loving boyfriend would take her at her word and stop demanding what she doesn't like to give. Next: stop appeasing men. Trying and trying and trying to like what they demand from you when you know beforehand that you do not like it is appeasement- giving him what he wants so he gets off your back about it. Appeasement is poison. Appeasement leads to resentment, shuts down communication within the relationship, and is a sure sign that this relationship is dead, dead, dead. If you stay with this guy, you will be validating his behavior. He has already shown that he disrespects you and cannot be civil to you. He has shown himself to be selfish and ready to disregard your feelings. He is deluded enough to think pornography is real thus proving he has neither brain nor empathy. His pressuring you to do what you dislike/don't want is reason enough to get rid of him. Do it. Time for a new and better lover! Last edited by EvilEvilKitten; 09-26-2009 at 08:54 AM.. 
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09-26-2009, 06:02 PM
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And after being married for 13 years it just doesn't happen anymore lol.
I always wonder just were cumming on somebody started. Porn sure, but when did this start be be a turn on. I'm sure it was to prevent pregnancy, so doing the dark ages was it the only way to get your kink on without pornhub available?! Oh and hi all, been lurking for awhile and wondered that thread would motivate me to register... Guess I know now lol.
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09-26-2009, 08:20 PM
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Piffle - if he loved her over and above a certain specific sex act.... then her abhorence of oral sex simply would NOT matter.
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09-27-2009, 10:43 AM
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Each of us, male and female, has limits in most of life. Those limits must be respected. I am, as usual, in agreement with the BadCat on this. He is making it demeaning by his insistence. Dump him.
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09-28-2009, 12:51 AM
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hey sorry I have not been able to get on sooner but thanks to everyone who replied.
after reading your replies and after the total disrespect I was shown by my bf a night ago. I have chosen to end our relationship for good, he is due to move out tonight. In case anybody asks I ended it not only due to the oral sex issue but as we were having sex the other night my bf chose to pull out and come on my stomach, he had not warned me or given any hint that he would do this. I knew that very moment he was not the man for me and am now glad this chapter of my life is over . As for my age I am 21 in 2 months and my fantasies, well I have never had a chance to explore them but I have always had a fascination with light bondage who knows where that will lead. once again thank you everybody who replied to this thread.
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09-28-2009, 07:28 AM
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Good for you!
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09-28-2009, 08:32 AM
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Oxfordfox,
Why are you so against fellatio and having him ejaculate on you? Degrading? I suppose you find preparing and serving a cup of tea degrading also. There is nothing degrading about doing something to please your partner whether it is sexual or not.
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09-28-2009, 11:24 AM
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And why should she, dlb? Is it MANDATORY or something?
I don't agree with her dislike but HE knew about it and did it anyway - so out he goes!
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